Sentences with phrase «under narcissistic parenting»

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However, when narcissistic personalities are involved in divorce and custody cases, I often see a toxicity, a malignancy, to these personality types that affects their ability to function as parents, to function under the stress of litigation, and to function without being abusive or toxic to the other spouse.

The child is already sad about the break - up of the family, and under the distorting influence of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent this authentic sadness is twisted into anger and blame directed at you for causing the divorce.

Failure to possess the requisite professional knowledge, training, and expertise in attachment theory, personality disorder processes (particularly narcissistic an borderline personality dynamics and their characteristic decompensation under stress), and in family systems constructs (particularly centering on the child's triangulation into the spousal conflict through a cross-generational parent - child coalition against the other parent) which is necessary for competent professional diagnosis and treatment with this «special population» of children and families may represent practice beyond the boundaries of professional competence in violation of professional practice standards.

The child authentically experiences a deep sadness and hurt associated with the targeted - rejected parent, which the child is falsely attributing to the «abusive» parenting or personhood of the targeted - rejected parent (under the distorting pathogenic influence of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent).

However, under the distorting influence of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent, the child is induced into misinterpreting this authentic sadness as being caused by something bad you're doing as a parent.

An authentic attachment system never shows «detachment behavior» except under an extremely limited set of severely abusive parenting (e.g., incest or chronic and severe parental violence), or in response to a cross-generational coalition with a narcissistic / (borderline) parent (i.e., attachment - based «parental alienation» — cats in the garden).

And all the while, the child's symptoms become ever more established and entrenched, the loving relationship with the targeted parent becomes ever more hostile and rejecting, and the child falls ever more fully under the distorting pathogenic influence of the narcissistic / (borderline) parent.