Not exact matches
Underlying sexual performance anxiety are
fears of rejection,
fears of not being attractive,
fears of failing in romantic relationships,
fears of infidelity,
fear of losing physical and emotional connection with their partners,
fears of abandonment etc..
Followers
of attachment theory feel that an
underlying «
fear of abandonment» drives couples» conflicts, and the ultimate therapeutic goal is to create a warm, empathic experience, at least partly to make up for what the client missed the first time around.
In addition, the
underlying «self - structure» organization
of the narcissistic and borderline personality organization is the same (Kernberg, 1975), involving the person's tremendous sense
of core - self inadequacy and
fears of abandonment.
Both personalities have an
underlying «borderline» core
of primal self - inadequacy and
fear of abandonment (i.e., attachment expectations for self - and other - in - relationship), and both have narcissistic features
of complete self - absorption.