Not exact matches
If a marriage is suffering from an untenable red - flag issue, then the
underlying mindset
of conscious uncoupling — which basically means tending to your own grief and other uncomfortable
feelings so that you don't project them onto your partner in the form
of retaliatory
anger and longterm resentment — is a gentle and responsible way to dissolve a marriage.
While I understand the ambivalence, frustration and / or outright
anger some librarians must
feel over the situation — it kind
of goes hand - in - hand working with Amazon — there's an unfortunate combination at play here that seems to be an
underlying truth
of the digital age: «Be careful what you wish for,» and, «If you get in bed with the devil, sooner or later...»
In a single session, she helps them conceptualize their conflicts in attachment terms, gain an understanding
of their negative cycle and begin to reveal some
of the vulnerable
feelings that
underlie their explosive
anger.
He may do so by becoming critical
of his wife, given that he may
feel more comfortable with his
anger than with his sadness, or he may deal with his
underlying fear that he does not matter, by dialing back his expectations and retreating inward where he can
feel safer and not so vulnerable.
The
anger in his play, like that expressed at school, is likely his reaction to
underlying feelings of pain and fear.
Over time, these situations begin to weigh on you and can lead to a plethora
of unhealthy patterns filled with resentment,
anger, passive - aggressiveness, emotional reactivity, a deep
feeling of emptiness, disconnection, lack
of empathy, hopelessness and a general,
underlying sense
of anxiety and / or depression.