It is our job as parents to identify
our underlying feelings of fear, inadequacy or shame — or whatever feelings you keep hoping won't get triggered.
Not exact matches
I read quite a few fashion blogs (I'm so unfashionable; it makes no sense), and during NYFW there seems to be an
underlying feeling of stress /
fear of missing out coming through in most posts I read.
Within a safe therapeutic container we can increase your awareness
of desires,
fears, strengths, and
underlying motivations, giving a sense
of broader horizons, and enhancing the
feeling of being securely anchored in the world.
He may do so by becoming critical
of his wife, given that he may
feel more comfortable with his anger than with his sadness, or he may deal with his
underlying fear that he does not matter, by dialing back his expectations and retreating inward where he can
feel safer and not so vulnerable.
Loss
of voice precludes expression
of heartfelt
feelings — the partners»
underlying longings and
fears.
Followers
of attachment theory
feel that an
underlying «
fear of abandonment» drives couples» conflicts, and the ultimate therapeutic goal is to create a warm, empathic experience, at least partly to make up for what the client missed the first time around.
If a couple can engage each other in a conversation not just about the surface issues, but about their
underlying feelings,
fears, and desires, they have managed to move out
of an initial gridlock on the issue and into an open a dialogue that is therapeutic for both.
But, when I thought more about this woman's
underlying feeling — I realized that it was one
of misunderstanding and
fear.
The Hold Me Tight conversation removed the
fear from the
underlying soft
feelings of affection, care, and love from each
of us, and we were able to sit, comfortably, without
fear, in complete security knowing that our love is unshakable, as long as we break through «The Nothing» (the name
of our demon dialogue / cycle — a reference to The Nothing in the Never Ending Story) and are vulnerable with each other.
Underlying emotion: Child
feels badly for each parent and is scared that something bad will happen to each
of them unless the child emotionally supports them; also, child
fears being emotionally abandoned by either or both parents.
The anger in his play, like that expressed at school, is likely his reaction to
underlying feelings of pain and
fear.