Not exact matches
The question surfaces
underlying feelings — e.g.,
anger toward the person, who can then be helped to learn from the confrontation.
If you set the limit harshly, your child stays in
anger and can't get to those
underlying feelings he needs to discharge.
Focus on what may
underlie the
anger... for example
feeling hurt, abandoned or dismissed.
I
feel slightly embarrassed now how attached I was to the old me, to my bitterness and
underlying anger.
If a marriage is suffering from an untenable red - flag issue, then the
underlying mindset of conscious uncoupling — which basically means tending to your own grief and other uncomfortable
feelings so that you don't project them onto your partner in the form of retaliatory
anger and longterm resentment — is a gentle and responsible way to dissolve a marriage.
While I understand the ambivalence, frustration and / or outright
anger some librarians must
feel over the situation — it kind of goes hand - in - hand working with Amazon — there's an unfortunate combination at play here that seems to be an
underlying truth of the digital age: «Be careful what you wish for,» and, «If you get in bed with the devil, sooner or later...»
In a single session, she helps them conceptualize their conflicts in attachment terms, gain an understanding of their negative cycle and begin to reveal some of the vulnerable
feelings that
underlie their explosive
anger.
I use couples therapy approaches with proven effectiveness to soothe
anger, increase connection and explore the
underlying patterns and buried
feelings that have led to the surface conflict or coldness.
He may do so by becoming critical of his wife, given that he may
feel more comfortable with his
anger than with his sadness, or he may deal with his
underlying fear that he does not matter, by dialing back his expectations and retreating inward where he can
feel safer and not so vulnerable.
The
anger in his play, like that expressed at school, is likely his reaction to
underlying feelings of pain and fear.
Over time, these situations begin to weigh on you and can lead to a plethora of unhealthy patterns filled with resentment,
anger, passive - aggressiveness, emotional reactivity, a deep
feeling of emptiness, disconnection, lack of empathy, hopelessness and a general,
underlying sense of anxiety and / or depression.
I help each person understand the
underlying feelings that are often not seen, but have an impact when they are expressed as frustration or
anger.