You may have differing values, poor communication,
unresolved hurt, resentment and anger that you are both dealing with.
You may have differing values, poor communication,
unresolved hurt, resentment and anger that you are... Read More
The long - term effects of
an unresolved hurt or overwhelming experience can evoke symptoms severe enough to impair our quality of life such as anxiety, depression or emotional dysregulation.
Is there anything that has gone unsaid: convictions, confessions,
unresolved hurt?
Unresolved hurt may respond as you did but not a heart of love.
Roger Harper examines three popular approaches to dealing with
unresolved hurts and issues from the... More
Roger Harper examines three popular approaches to dealing with
unresolved hurts and issues from the past.
A wall of
unresolved hurts, frustrations, and resentments between a couple will diminish and eventually dam up the flow of loving, sensual feelings.
Repair
unresolved hurts or breaches in trust.
I watch the compelling, absorbing nature of negative emotions (Gottman, 2007) and
the unresolved hurts and wounds (Johnson, 2008) that get in the way of being able to engage in respectful, mutually honest, and vulnerable conversations.
I work regularly with issues related to loss of self in relationships, trust and intimacy issues, difficulty setting boundaries,
unresolved hurts or trauma, addictions, and spirituality.»
Not exact matches
Regardless of our homes — our experiences in high school or college or as a kid — all of us have pasts filled with mistakes and
hurt, seasons of pain, friendships lost, fights
unresolved, maybe even regret.
If
unresolved conflicts or old
hurts are sabotaging the relationship, it's essential to address them.
It'll just give birth to more
unresolved issues, not to mention
hurt the person who's included in the photo you once captioned «this is forever».
For both the spouses and the children, a second trip down the aisle may resurrect old,
unresolved anger and
hurt about the previous failed marriage.
While couples may wait to enter couples counseling for a variety of reasons, this means there's a long time where one or both individuals in the relationship is feeling
hurt and these feelings are going
unresolved.
Unresolved emotional pain leads them to develop coping methods that increase their
hurt and isolation.
This is particularly so for divorced couples whose relationship may be strained with distrust,
unresolved resentments,
hurt and anger.
This feedback loop leaves both people feeling frustrated and
hurt, with issues
unresolved and at an impasse.
Caregivers parenting a traumatized child frequently have
unresolved trauma themselves and are frequently clinically depressed which makes it difficult for them to be emotionally available to their
hurting child.
When we enter into relationships, both partners bring along all their
unresolved conflicts, fears,
hurts and expectations.
As well as leaving important issues in your marriage
unresolved, the silent treatment may make your spouse feel worthless, unloved,
hurt, confused, frustrated, angry, and unimportant.
Anxiety, Depression, social awkwardness,
unresolved questions and
hurt, addiction, ambivalence....
PAIRS is for any couple: if you have a good relationship that you want to make even better, or you're struggling with distance;
unresolved anger, resentments or
hurts; or difficulty communicating or creating as much intimacy as you would like.