This included both mothers» and fathers» reports of total problem behaviors, mothers» reports of occurrence and frequency of problem behaviors, mothers» reports of negative behaviors, and both mothers» and fathers»
use of spanking.
Diana Baumrind supports the occasional
use of spanking as a form of discipline and states that her research has shown no negative long - term impact on children if the punishment is delivered within an authoritative style where the child does not perceive the action as harsh or cruel.
RESULTS: Frequent use of CP (ie, mother's
use of spanking more than twice in the previous month) when the child was 3 years of age was associated with increased risk for higher levels of child aggression when the child was 5 years of age (adjusted odds ratio: 1.49 [95 % confidence interval: 1.2 — 1.8]; P <.0001), even with controlling for the child's level of aggression at age 3 and the aforementioned potential confounding factors and key demographic features.
Response: A blanket injunction against disciplinary
use of spanking is not warranted by the data.
Although it's not in the limelight as often as various other hot - button «mommy wars» issues,
the use of spanking as a disciplinary method is still a controversial — and common — practice.
The best
use of spanking, Larzelere said, is in children between the ages of 2 and 6 when milder discipline tactics, such as time out, fail.
If you disagreed with
the use of spanking, you were to sign a form attesting to that at the beginning of each school year, and then were typically required to meet with the school administrators to determine an alternative discipline.
While most people (at least publicly) decry
the use of spanking as a form of child discipline, more people do spank their kids than they let on.
Not exact matches
Fewer rescuers than non-rescuers reported being slapped,
spanked, kicked, and beaten or having their hair pulled by parents; 3) Many more non-rescuers than rescuers perceived punishment as gratuitous — a cathartic release
of aggressiveness by parents; and 4) Rescuers most frequently
used the word explained to describe parental approaches to correction and discipline.
the point
of the joke is nothing to do with the
spanking, but with the kid's
using his poor interpretation
of scripture to defend himself
A deserved
spanking and welcome reality check which should be
used to get some perspective and focus but I tell you they still have alot
of growing up to do and we must sign a clinical striker in January.
I was adamant that I would
use spanking as a method
of punishment in our home... before I became a mother.
My mother
used consistency, manual labor,
spanking when necessary, removal
of privileges and taking away our toys / electronics.
do the children
of parents who
use controlled
spanking accept their punishment and offer up their hand or rear to be swatted?
Regardless
of whether one is a person who
uses spanking for discipline or not, this particular statement takes it to a level that is unacceptable.
Commenter Susan
of Lil Mom That Could admits that she
used to
spank, but doesn't anymore.
Half
of moms would
use yelling first to scold their child; 36 percent say they'd
use spanking; and 32 percent say they'd
use a time - out.
This parent is stern and controlling, likely to have lots
of rules and to
spank or
use other punitive measures.
Other mothers simply feel that
spanking isn't effective: «I don't plan on
using spanking — I think it teaches children to «behave» out
of fear, not because they've learned right from wrong.»
When parents learn and apply the three Fs
of Effective
using the parenting techniques on this page and others, they find that yelling, screaming and
spanking disappear and a positive relationship is established.
The American Academy
of Pediatrics requests parents not to
spank or
use any type
of physical discipline as there are other, more effective, discipline techniques.
What struck me most about the poll was not that there are parents who happily
use spanking, but the large amount
of voters who fell into the C category, or reluctant spankers.
Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined using harsh physical punishment like spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or mal
Spanking: Parenthood's Dirty Little (and Common) Secret This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined
using harsh physical punishment like
spanking, they are at higher risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or mal
spanking, they are at higher risk
of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other mental health problems - even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.
I have very negative feelings
of being
spanked as a child, and I would love to not
use spanking at all for our children.
Whether or not you overtly oppose any type
of spanking, support it in very limited cases, or like many parents, publicly decry its
use but privately have
used it at least once on a defiant or out -
of - control child, the controversy surrounding it isn't likely to end for generations to come.
Spankings will not work for every action and if worked one day it may not work the next, and that's parent of parenting... there are some parents who no matter what use harsh spankings as a consequence for everything and I would deem that «abuse of power&
Spankings will not work for every action and if worked one day it may not work the next, and that's parent
of parenting... there are some parents who no matter what
use harsh
spankings as a consequence for everything and I would deem that «abuse of power&
spankings as a consequence for everything and I would deem that «abuse
of power»...
* I also send my kids to public school, let them watch TV, vaccinate them (though I do think there are too many
of those), reprimand them for misbehaviour and
use timeouts (no
spanking though), and other such heretical things.
This week a study was released saying when children are disciplined
using harsh physical punishment like
spanking, they are at higher risk
of depression, anxiety, substance abuse and other mental health problems — even if they aren't otherwise abused or maltreated.
For instance, you may think that
spanking is an effective form
of discipline, but if you have to
use it each day to correct the same problem or behavior, then it should be obvious that it isn't.
If you
use spanking, punitive timeouts, logical consequences, or other forms
of punishments, try to move toward non-punitive discipline.
Although it is not necessary to make
spanking a crime to encourage alternative approaches to parenting, section 43
of the Criminal Code
of Canada6 sends the wrong message, stating, ``... a parent is justified in
using force by way
of correction... if the force does not exceed what is reasonable under the circumstances.»
The results reinforce earlier studies which have found that children who are
spanked have lower IQ scores and that frequent
spanking has been linked to anxiety and behavior problems and higher risk
of violent or criminal behavior, depression and excessive alcohol
use.
«If they avoid
spanking but instead
use effective, non-physical types
of discipline, their child has a better chance
of being healthier, and behaving better later.»
Use of punishment, such as
spanking and humiliation, may de-sensitize your child to physical and emotional pain, making them more vulnerable to abuse.
When a parent
uses traditional forms
of punishment (ultimatums, timeouts, lecturing, or
spanking), children obey to avoid punishment.
I would try and avoid
spanking and
use the recommended suggestion
of 1 minute per year
of age when giving my kids timeouts.
If you are
using spanking for toddler discipline, you are setting example
of using violence to solve problems.
The repeated
use of physical discipline like
spanking to manage misbehavior contributes to bullying.
The Canadian Paediatric Society, «strongly discourages [original emphasis] the
use of physical punishment on children, including
spanking.»
When Jennifer Lansford and her colleagues tracked a group
of children for more than a decade, they found links between
spanking and aggressive behavior problems, but the effect depended on how long parents
used spanking as a disciplinary tactic.
A
spanking is never
used as a threat, an outlet for anger or in the place
of properly and clearly set bounderies.
I also agree with that
spanking or any kind
of physical hitting will teach children to
use violence to solve situations.
Many parents when faced with the alternative
of not
spanking,
using timeouts, or punishment assume that there are no ways to discipline their children.
In 1 study34
of 320 middle - class parents who
used spanking for discipline, 85 % reported feeling «moderate to high anger, remorse, or agitation» while
spanking their children.
Although the
use of corporal punishment in children has been controversial, evidence continues to emerge highlighting the negative developmental impact
of this form
of discipline in children.21, 29 Moreover, this finding is particularly concerning given that children were only 1 year
of age in our study, a developmental stage when children are unlikely to understand the connection between their behavior and subsequent punishment and when
spanking is more likely to cause physical injury.30
That included getting a
spanking - new lab, with never - before -
used instruments, at a cost
of $ 240,000.
[George W. Holden, Paul A. Williamson and Grant W. O. Holland, Eavesdropping on the family: A pilot investigation
of corporal punishment in the home] Previous studies
using parental self - reports have estimated that parents
spank about 18 times per year.
If you're not
using brand
spanking new jars straight out
of the case, then be sure to clean the outside
of the jars thoroughly.
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