Intimacy & Desire shows how to
use sexual desire problems to increase your differentiation, resolve desire problems, and possibly rewire your brain.
Though I am encouraged that Hill sees potential hazards in the
use of terms like «gay Christian» and «homosexual Christian,» he, along with Gonnerman and Tushnet, may not sufficiently recognize the
problems with describing or defining a person in terms of his or her affective
desire for the same sex (whether that
desire is relational, romantic, or
sexual), in place of the clear definition of our
sexual identity revealed to us by Scripture and the Church.
Using this approach I've found resolving
sexual desire problems isn't more difficult than solving
sexual dysfunctions, which have a good prognosis.