And while parents have probably
used shame since the beginning to time, the reach of social media makes it more dangerous than ever.
The Holy Spirit does not transform
us using shame.
They use shame and fear to create intellectual fences.
I do understand that many people
use shame to control those around them but that is not unique to the purity culture and thus I see it as a different, although related, issue.
I don't think it's the purity movement that is the problem so much as those who
use the shame of such an issue to control others.
Christians are accused of
using shame all the time.
The overwhelming reaction was that it is not only legitimate but necessary and even divine to
use shame to motivate church members.
You DO realize that you used abusive, shame language while trying to rebuke someone for supposedly
using shame language, right?
Christine, are you sure you are not confusing a normal feeling of conscience induced guilt (a good thing normally) with the abusive process of
using shame as a means of control?
Unless «we embrace the totality of life by accepting both creation and destruction as natural parts of the flow of life, we will continue to turn away from our power and be at the mercy of those who will
use shame and guilt to control us.»
Avoid
using shame, fear, threats or intimidation to force the separation, or to attempt to prevent children from crying about it
It's tempting to
use shame as a parenting tool (ie, «Look how dirty you are!
But don't
use shame to try to make your child feel guilty.
Never
use shame as a training technique, or react as if there is a big problem.
Of all the four basic parenting styles, this style is the most likely to punish, often physically, or
use shame to control a child's behavior.
It's long past time to recognize this woman for what she is, a cult leaders whose empirical claims have no basis in fact, whose recommendations have caused countless preventable neonatal deaths, and who
uses shame and guilt to discipline her followers.
However, when
we use shame against ourselves, we retraumatize ourselves.
As I write in my forthcoming book,
using shame to try to change our kids» behavior will backfire because these strategies don't focus on the real problem (behavior) and imply instead that the child herself is the problem.
It fits in well with a lot of peaceful, authoritative parenting styles, because RIE is about letting kids grow up whole, healthy, and well - adjusted by treating them with patience, empathy, and respect, rather than
using shame, misdirection, manipulation, threats, coercion, or force to shape their behavior.
Using shame, humiliation, guilt, manipulation, coercion, or physical forms of discipline can interfere with the connection between parent and child.
As attorney general, Spitzer's favorite tactic was to
use shame and publicity as weapons against publicly traded companies, and for eight years, it was hugely effective — though Spitzer ran roughshod over more than a few innocent parties.
Many of the film's priests
use shame liberally, but one young priest — played with vigour by Sherlock «s Andrew Scott — offers hope and understanding.
I am less than impressed with those trying to wrestle the book out of my hands and into theirs,
using shame, guilt and manipulative techniques, for a huge fee of course.
Those of you who follow this blog daily probably have gathered already that I'm going to follow up on two recent thought - provoking posts, one by Tom Bentley («Shatter Your Characters») on
using shame and guilt to -LSB-...]
Hoping to
use shame to spur some industry action, earlier this month Twitter security engineer Charlie Miller and Christopher Valasek, a director of security intelligence at IOActive, presented a study at the 2014 Black Hat USA security conference in Las Vegas, identifying car models they determined to be most vulnerable to a remote cyber attack.
Avoid
using shaming or blaming terms — a fear of being punished may prevent children from accessing help
Not exact matches
«I would just say that we may or may not have reached out to certain folks very early about the importance of data encryption, and if those people had
used our software then that data that would still be protected today And it's a
shame, a
shame for society, that they did not take that simple action.
It
used to be the walk of
shame: startups raising Series D, E and even later rounds of investment.
It's just a
shame about the Surface Book's battery life in tablet mode — it's comfortable to
use, but you won't last long without a power cord.
It's One Wipe Charlies promise men a clean and comfortable wiping experience without the embarrassment or
shame of
using wipes marketed to babies.
What matters, in these cases, is that someone on your team is brave enough, vulnerable enough, to
use a sentence that starts with, «The story I'm making up right now is...» The idea is to reach the truth as quickly possible, instead of wandering around with your made - up explanation, which more than likely consists of your own
shame triggers, and has little relation to reality.
China is setting up a vast surveillance system that tracks every single one of its 1.4 billion citizens — from
using facial recognition to name and
shame jaywalkers, to forcing people to download apps that can access all the photos on their smartphones.
Before Justin Trudeau had uttered a word, Heritage Minister James Moore had
used his fifth response to the New Democrats to scold the Liberal leader and then, in response to Mr. Trudeau's first question, Mr. Moore had pronounced further
shame on him and so now Mr. Trudeau attempted a rallying cry.
Remember, there is no
shame in
using ppc to elevate your search visibility so hold your head high while you drive traffic and create leads with your pay - per - click campaigns.
When it comes to inbound marketing there is often a feeling of
shame and embarrassment when when one of our colleagues admits that they are
using pay - per - click advertising (PPC).
«America's asset is, simply risk taking and the
use of optionality, this remarkable ability to engage in rational forms of trial and error, with no comparative
shame in failing, starting again, and repeating failure.
«This is about us begging for our lives; this isn't about the GOP, this isn't about the Democrats, this is about us creating a badge of
shame for any politicians accepting money from the NRA and
using us as collateral,» Kasky said.
Although Warren did not herself
use legislation or official congressional power to get Wells Fargo to claw back $ 60 million from executives, her public
shaming and the Facebook post that followed fanned the public opinion fires so vigorously that the bank's board had to do something to quell shareholders and an angry public.
«It's a
shame a man has to
use gimmicks like this to get elected,» Mr. Nixon is supposed to have remarked to Mr. Ailes.
Just as we look back on Christians who
used Scripture to justify slavery and male supremacy as misinformed, history will once again show that conservative Christians inappropriately applied Scripture to
shame and degrade gays and lesbians.
What a
shame, claiming to be very civilized and then
using street thug ism and then outright terrorism.
On the contrary, the
shame arises only when Adam and Eve violate the will written into their natures by their Creator, when they
use each other to suit their own individual appetites, wishing to put self in the place of God.
What a
shame how Mormon.org equivocates in its
use of the terms Father, Son, and Holy Spirit without noting these terms have nothing in common with the Christian concepts (www.irr.org).
When men, who have agency and voice, are silent against the sexual predation of women, they not only contribute to the
shame that victims feel, they empower the predators who
use wealth and power to continue their assault on our sisters created in the image of God.
It's a
shame conservatives trying to advocate their political views
using my name in vain!
I did it since you jerks couldn't,» no church should ever
use the Gospel message to make people feel
shamed.
For example, Threes are often motivated by the
shame of not being worthy of love, and
use activity and accomplishment in order to «earn» love and acceptance.
We
used to sing it and jump around and wave our hands because it was a song about the passage of Scripture when David dances wildly before the Lord and his wife
shames him for it but he retorts that he'll become even more undignified in his worship.
The patriarchal, macho, controlling, manipulative,
shaming, money - grubbing, name - it - and - claim - it, fear - mongering, other - despising, fiefdom - making,
using and abusing, excuse for narcissistic and plain old selfish and power - addled appalling behavior that is commonly called «church» and «church leadership» has nothing whatsoever to do with anything the person or character or compilation or concept called «Jesus» ever reportedly or theoretically said, did, or conveyed.
Do we promote the
use of
shame or intimidation to prevent abortion?