Those of you who follow this blog daily probably have gathered already that I'm going to follow up on two recent thought - provoking posts, one by Tom Bentley («Shatter Your Characters») on
using shame and guilt to -LSB-...]
Unless «we embrace the totality of life by accepting both creation and destruction as natural parts of the flow of life, we will continue to turn away from our power and be at the mercy of those who will
use shame and guilt to control us.»
It's long past time to recognize this woman for what she is, a cult leaders whose empirical claims have no basis in fact, whose recommendations have caused countless preventable neonatal deaths, and who
uses shame and guilt to discipline her followers.
Not exact matches
Just like governments can gather personal information about you, the police can invade your privacy,
and CEOs can treat you like a number, so religious leaders can
use fear,
shame and guilt to manipulate you.
What does it matter when we die what is important is what we do with our life now.The struggles people find themselves is because of living a sinful lifestyle you cant play with fire
and not get burnt there are consequences.Jesus wants to bring forgiveness
and healing
and remove the
guilt and shame that you are feeling.Ive have been there i was just as guilty i do nt believe theres a big screen that replays our life if it is it, it will be about what we have done for God as our sins are covered under the blood of Jesus.The judgement for christians is that we must give an account of what we did for Jesus while we were here did we make the most of opportunities given to tell others to reach out others with his love.Mat 25:14 - 30 the Parable of the talents talks about judgement
and for me it is all about what we do for Jesus the ones who are faithfull in the small things are set over much.The one who did nt
use his talent that God gave him was punished for his lack of faith.So for those who are struggling with sin
and life Jesus loves you
and has a plan for your life just trust him to help you
and he will.To be fair its wont be easy you will have to make some hard choices but he promises to help you through its all about choosing him over choosing what we think best because he knows whats best for us.Its important the choice you make as it will impact your life for eternity.brentnz
Just like governments can gather personal information about you, the police can invade your privacy,
and CEOs can treat you like a number, so religious leaders can
use fear,
shame and guilt to manipulate...
Some
use Christianity as a tool for manipulation,
using fear,
shame and guilt to control
and influence others.
I think that it's a human instinct, a religious instinct, when we don't understand
and really believe in grace
and in the goodness of people to
use fear,
shame and guilt to motivate people to do good.
We're so
used to Shake off the
guilt,
and realize that you did the best you could with the resources you had,
and start
shaming these companies.
The word
used in English translations of the Bible, punish, conveys an external infliction of negative consequences, while the original words, avon (Hebrew)
and kolasis / kolazo (Greek) convey internal, self - imposed consequences (i.e. carrying the weight of
guilt /
shame)
and natural consequences (i.e. being estranged).
Somehow reading this article
and looking over
and over at the graphics of the neediest States
using the free or reduced lunch program slightly eased my own
shame and / or
guilt; because I still hardly believe this is our reality.
By
using a direct approach when communicating, you can protect your child from the
guilt and shame that they may internalize because of your unspoken, non-verbal behavior.
There are also controversies
and ethical considerations surrounding the means
used by public campaigns which attempt to increase breastfeeding rates, relating to pressure put on women,
and potential feeling of
guilt and shame of women who fail to breastfeed;
and social condemnation of women who
use formula.
I have a lot of
shame,
guilt and regret about how things have gone
and never wanted to
use formula.
Using shame, humiliation,
guilt, manipulation, coercion, or physical forms of discipline can interfere with the connection between parent
and child.
I am less than impressed with those trying to wrestle the book out of my hands
and into theirs,
using shame,
guilt and manipulative techniques, for a huge fee of course.
The right to sustainable development is not asserted to
shame or assign
guilt to those in economies that have grown rapidly through
use of fossil fuels — it simply seeks to restore some balance,
and efficient direction of resources to put all of humanity on a sustainable footing.
For girls, a less secure relationship with best friends
and lower levels of
shame and guilt were related to the
use of aggression in romantic relationships
and endorsing less healthy attitudes about these relationships.
For boys, externalizing responsibility for harm to others was related to
using physical aggression in romantic relationships
and lower levels of
guilt and shame were related to the justification of sexual aggression.
(9) Abstinence - only programs have often
used fear,
guilt and shame as techniques to scare adolescents into «rejecting sex
and contraception.
Where they
used to see their partner shutting down, they now see them hiding from
shame and guilt.
The fear of abandonment or rejection can lead to manipulative attempts to prevent the other person from leaving through the
use of
shame,
guilt and anger.
I
use hypnosis
and bilateral stimulation to help build up a your resources to self - nurture
and protect you from the ravages of
guilt,
shame anxiety
and self - limiting beliefs.
In addition CBT is
used to help clients learn to reduce the impact of negative emotions like anxiety, anger,
guilt,
shame, depression, stress,
and embarrassment.
Compared to LD, HD participants reported significantly greater
shame proneness, poorer functioning on emotion regulation competencies (emotional control, self - awareness
and situational responsiveness), less healthy emotion regulation strategy
use (less reappraisal
and greater suppression),
and lower levels of
guilt proneness.