I'd hate to summarize anything as beautiful as what you've written by throwing out cliches like true church
vs. false church, or buildings vs. community of faith, so I'll just say this.
Furthermore, this culture war has presented people like Justin, and people like Cindy — a mom who contacted Justin in a panic after learning her son was gay, knowing that her
church was the last place she could turn if she wanted her son to feel loved and supported — with a dangerous
false dichotomy: It's gays
vs. Christians.