It's best for everyone to know ahead of time how
you want labor and birth to be.
Not exact matches
I just
wanted to give her a heads - up since she was planning on being here during the
labor (once we needed her)
and birth to watch Ava.
We were talking about
birth plans
and she said, «I don't
want to be judged the next time I'm in
labor.
I
wanted to get into my
birth tub, but she didn't think I was dilated enough
and that going into the water could cause me to pause or regress my
labor.
I knew myself
and how I
wanted to
labor and give
birth.
Narrator: If your goal is a drug - free childbirth or you
want to ease
labor pain naturally before getting numbed with an epidural, moving
and trying different birthing positions can help you come closer to having the
birth experience you
want.
The hospital birthing center where I had my baby offers it... My midwife was actually excited that I
wanted to do water
labor but no water
birth... I was the only one of her patients who DID N'T intend to
birth in the water
and she needed people birthing out of the tub for a control group in a waterbirth infection study she was contributing to.
Having a home
birth and want to take advantage of a roomy, accessible tub to
labor and / or
birth in.
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My mom arrived to watch my three - year - old daughter during my
labor, because as much as I
wanted her to be part of the home
birth of her sibling, I was afraid I would hemorrhage again,
and she would be scared.
-LSB-...] during my
labor, because as much as I
wanted her to be part of the home
birth of her sibling, I was afraid I would hemorrhage again,
and she would be scared.
As the Founders of LLLI suggested, they
wanted to be aware
and involved in
labor and birth.
After
wanting and trying so hard for a natural
birth, the long, unproductive
labor and transfer to the hospital for a medicated
birth was disappointing, to put it mildly.
However, I will also share my resource list with you so that you can contact a some of my favorite local doulas (ranging from Delray Beach
and Boca Raton doulas to Fort Lauderdale
and Miami doulas) so that they can help you prepare
and go over various
labor pain coping strategies, especially if you are planning an unmedicated
birth (or even leading up to getting an epidural during
labor) it is good to learn about your options now so that you can be prepared, know what to expect
and know what you
want.
If you are cared for by a midwife they come
and assess you at home when you go into
labor even if you are planning on a hospital
birth (unless you choose to go right in
and meet them there but most midwife clients
want to be at home as long a possible from what I understand).
The midwives explained that if I truly
wanted to leave, I could, but I would be risking a car
birth and that this was the quickest part of
labor.
«I know the guidelines state IOL is indicated, but she really
wants a home
birth and wants to wait for
labor.
I'm sure the reason I have so little anxiety about
labor and birth is because I took a childbirth education class
and doula training back in my early twenties, before I was even certain that I
wanted to have kids.
In recent years elective cesarean delivery has become a popular choice for women who don't wish to have a vaginal
birth and who don't
want to experience traditional birthing methods
and the pain of
labor.
Giving
birth in water is a safe, healthy choice for women who
want to minimize their pain during
labor and maximize their experience of
birth.
What you will need to include is your name, your
labor partner's name, your doctor's name, your doula's name (if you have one),
and your baby's name (if decided already), your due date, things you would like during labour i.e. if you would like ice chips for nourishment or
want to be coached when it's time to push, what you would like when it comes to pain relief, i.e. if you
want an epidural or not, things that you would like to happen straight after the
birth, i.e. your partner to cut the cord, if you
want to hold the baby straight away or after they've been cleaned up, special requests if you need to have a C - section, concerns
and fears
and anything else.
Before you give
birth, you'll
want to think carefully about questions like what kind of pain relief you
want during
labor and what you
want to pack in your hospital bag.
Of course
laboring women
want to mitigate pain, but short of using pharmacological interventions, how do you really reduce pain in
labor and birth?
A
birth plan will outline what you hope to happen during your birthing experience like who you
want in the room with you, what kind of props you desire to help you through the contractions (such as music to listen to or pictures to look at), what kind of pain medications you may
want to take to ease your
labor pain,
and the overall mood you hope to achieve in your birthing room.
As wonderful as the exercise ball, or
birth ball, is for
labor and even pregnancy, there are times that you may
want to steer clear of it.
A midwife will provide personal attention throughout your
labor and strong support for a drug - free
birth, if that's what you
want.
It's better understood in retrospect (first - time mamas take note) that women in
labor do NOT
want to get in a car — staying at home for the
birth, not having to come right home,
and having post-partum home visits is pretty awesome.
Giving
birth is one of the hardest things you'll ever do,
and you don't
want to be fighting for your choices or second - guessing the motives of your doctor or midwife while you're in active
labor.
I think there are a lot more nutso's in the cohort who
want a planned home
birth than in the cohort who requests a planned (elective) C - section — no
birth is «elective», but the cohort who
wants to preserve perineal strength
and function while avoiding the pain of
labor and the risk of
labor on the baby should have their autonomy acknowledged.
They
wanted to know if the mom ended their first - time
labor and birth experience with a c - section.
Choices as to whether a woman
wants to move around or whether she prefers to remain in bed during the
labor and whether or not she
wants access to a tub or shower are some of the things discussed in a
birth plan.
For instance, if you have a natural
birth plan in place, then the nurses
and doctors will know that you do not
want any interventions for pain
and that you plan to go through the
labor and delivery that way.
Some pregnant moms do
want the standard treatment, as they are more concerned with GBS than a few doses of intravenous antibiotics,
and do not feel the IV in
labor will hinder them or their
birth dreams.
I ended up with a nightmare of back
labor,
wanted and received medications to ease that pain,, so not part of the
birth plan LOL My MIL did not respect boundaries,
and within hours of delivering I had to get ugly with her regarding our plans for visitors, etc..
(You probably don't need a doula for a home
birth, because a home
birth midwife will provide you continuous support throughout
labor, but you might
want a doula if she's an expert in something you're using like self - hypnosis
and your midwife isn't experienced with it.
Proponents of birthing as a non-medical event sometimes show natural
birth pictures
and natural
birth videos where
laboring women are strapped onto a special
labor table or undergo procedures they don't really
want like an unnecessary c - section or induction.
A lot of thought
and planning for exactly how you
want your
labor to go is a good idea, but keep in mind that as the hours drag out
and progress is slower than you hoped for,
birth plans frequently have to change.
Laura went into
labor one afternoon
and by midnight, she knew that she was about to have her baby They called three of their friends over (all males) who
wanted to be present during the
birth.
Whether you
want a «natural»
birth because you
want to avoid medical interventions or because it seems like the best choice for you, one thing is sure: planning your
labor and delivery is a big deal.
Whether you are planning a
birth with some interventions or planning to avoid them entirely, this episode has some great tips on how to distinguish between early
and active
labor, how to communicate with your care provider,
and what you can do to prepare for the
birth experience you
want.
It tells them about the type of
labor and birth you'd like to have, what you
want to happen,
and what you
want to avoid.»
I was poked
and prodded during
labor,
and the doctors
and nurses continually offered medications even though I
wanted to give
birth naturally.
If you
want to be able to see these things, then you should consider
labor and delivery
birth photography.
I do know how to be a «sister» — as a mother who has also given
birth, a supporter who that «average Jane»
wants with her during her pregnancy,
labor,
birth and postpartum.
Things are circulated there as truth — «You only have one position you can
labor in at the hospital,» «You can't make noise at the hospital,» «At the hospital they'll try to force drugs on you that will hurt your baby» — that aren't true,
and so many women who choose home
birth think they are making a choice that will give them more «control,» when really they'd have all those same options at the hospital (multiple
labor positions, noise or no noise, no drugs if they
want)
and MORE.
I
wanted what felt like a happy medium — an opportunity to
labor and birth with the goal of avoiding medical interventions, but have all the medical assistance ready to go if things went wrong.
But I have been through
labor and birth twice,
and let me tell you: Many moms will NOT
want all the pictures you've taken of her
and her baby right after
labor and birth to be shared to the farthest reaches of the Internet — so don't share any pictures unless it's okay with the mom or she's said ahead of time that she doesn't really care.
Anyway She
Wants It: I love the fact that, after a long
and arduous pregnancy, my wife, Monica, will be able to not only experience a natural
labor unlike she experienced with the medically - induced
births of our other two kids, but she'll also be able to direct the show, so to speak.
I had my first baby this past October naturally at a hospital
birth center with a midwife... it was precisely the
labor experience we
wanted,
and it was wonderful.
Her first
birth involved several days of prodromal
labor,
and if you don't know what that is, you really
want to listen to this episode.