For one thing, after some minor tearing during Maya's home birth, I had some fears
around how my
vagina would heal and whether or not I'd ever be able to make love the
way we used to (forget the possibility of expanding our repertoire or level of intimacy).
And then he goes on to explain that evolutionary anthropologists and psychologists speculate that the large glans forms a ridge all the
way around the shaft — a perfect tool to scrape the inside of the
vagina of any other man's sperm.