Sentences with phrase «way of blaming»

Flynn discusses the Gottman Method's four communication patterns that can lead to divorce: criticism (pointing out what your partner is doing wrong), contempt (mockery, making fun of someone, degrading), defensiveness (a backwards way of blaming your partner), and stonewalling (ignoring your partner like they don't affect you).

This is because defensiveness is really an underhanded way of blaming your partner.

Defensiveness is really a way of blaming your partner.

Typically defensiveness will surface when these interactions are at play and this is a way of blaming your partner by implying or stating that «the problem isn't with me it's with you».

Even though it was clearly stated that Wenger had not been involved in the whole process still some people found a way of blaming Wenger for the delay in concluding the deal!

His position, is seen as a sharp departure from his usual ways of blaming governments, including the Kufuor administration, the John Mills administration and the John Mahama administration, for doing nothing about corruption, because they were also corrupt.

Not exact matches

One surefire way to quickly lose both the respect and trust of your employees is to outsource the solution to someone else or avoid responsibility by blaming others.

And never follow your apology with a disclaimer like «But I was really mad, because...» or «But I did think you were...» or any statement that in any way places even the smallest amount of blame back on the other person.

Observing anti-harassment, anti-discrimination and anti-bullying policies increasingly enshrined in provincial employment standards will go a long way to minimize a company's risk of being blamed for mental injury.

A subscription service called Shoes4you failed recently, and many observers blamed the local concept of jeitinho, which gives a wink and pat on the back to consumers who uncover ways to get things for free.

He argues that most negotiators are overly willing to compromise, and he blames this on the way that some win - win adherents prize «relationships» over getting the best possible deal — a style of negotiating that others, especially non-U.S. negotiators, go out of their way to exploit.

That way, you can blame the blue screen of death instead of «human error» for the next critical foul - up.

Blame it on their helicopter parents, Instagram, or the way the educational system has been schooling kids via group activities for decades — the vast majority of Millennials have no qualms about being the center of attention.

He said he feels sorry for the families of the officials in Michigan's upcoming Orange Bowl game because Harbaugh is already «researching them, trying to find someone to blame if the game doesn't go his way.»

Most important, instead of focusing on blame or justice for what happened in Charlottesville, it points a way forward for us all.

It's made me think twice about the way I question people, the way I think about victims and accused aggressors, and what my role is in perpetuating this destructive culture of victim blaming.

Never follow an apology with a disclaimer like «But I was really mad, because...» or «But I did think you were...» or any statement that in any way places even the smallest amount of blame back on the other person.

Figuring out ways to regulate trading by sophisticated investors in derivatives, which go by exotic names such as «currency forwards» and «credit default swaps,» is a hot topic in international policy circles, largely because failures on this murky side of the market are blamed for the 2008 global credit meltdown and the recession that followed.

«Nutritional deficiencies have a funny way of amplifying all of your worst emotions and making you your worst enemy because you start blaming yourself instead of recognizing that there's some kind of deficiency,» Angel explains in the video.

For example, some time back HFT was blamed for higher volatility in the cattle market, even though such trading represents a smaller fraction of cattle trading than it does for other contracts, and especially since there is precious little in the way of a theoretical argument that would support such a connection.

«It was more of a joke, a wiseass way I have,» he said, before going on in time - honoured fashion to blame the messenger — in this case McFarland.

It was unclear if Ms. Ambrose considered this a statement of explanation or a pronouncement of blame, but either way it would seem to clash somewhat with all of the above, as well as the auditor general's assertion that a 36 - year costing existed.

From blaming the victim to the way lyrics which glorify rape and smacking or killing your «bitch» seem to go unnoticed by people who should be in an uproar about it, to the ridiculously light sentences handed out to perpetrators of rape and even murder of a woman or child, our culture is tacitly condoning this mind - set by their very silence.

This is the government's way of planning something really bad for this weekend and blaming it on that cult!!!

They want to find a preacher in skinny jeans that will tell them what they want to hear, that way they can justify in their minds their actions in the sight of God and then blame the fraudulent preacher in the end.

This a staggeringly unhealthy narrative to promote to our children about the way sexuality works, and plays directly into the hands of a rape culture such as the one in which we live: If you are a woman and ever get catcalled, abused, molested, raped or any number of other sexual advances, you are probably at least partially to blame.

Most of us — not all, I'm afraid — would stop short of blaming the citizens of New Orleans for the devastation of Hurricane Katrina, but that doesn't mean we don't moralize our suffering in other, more subtle ways.

In no way should we pin the blame on the Glenn Beck and his form of political vaudeville.

That's will cost you your soul, so when that happens, don't blame Jesus Christ, He already made a way of escape of eternal hell, you atheists are just angry and are so rebellion.

Blaming Mud - slingers may look for who to nail, but Reflectors look for ways to be like Jesus who took the nail instead of blaming Blaming Mud - slingers may look for who to nail, but Reflectors look for ways to be like Jesus who took the nail instead of blaming blaming anyone.

When complaining and blaming is a way of life — we can't complain that there's no one else to blame when we can't find the way to the abundant life.

But unlike other Jewish preachers, Jesus offered a way of salvation: he would take the blame for those who repent, and thereby save them from hell.

I just don't want to see the blame laid at the feet of the very men who might show us a way out.

But as much as I would love to blame the culture or the church (or men) for all of our misery, I'm pretty convinced that the only way women can ever be happy again is if we cut ourselves some slack.

Even though our great sin was that of accusation and blame, so that we condemned and killed others in God's name (Eph 2:1 - 3), God Himself did not behave that way toward us.

A few ho mose xuals lied their way into the priesthood to attack the innocents, to continually blame the entire church for the conduct of a ho mose xual minority is like blaming banks because there are bank robbers.

Of course, one could always take the easy way out and blame humans for the confusion, but that only dodges the question and is unacceptable.

I also think people sarcastically «blame» god for disasters as a way of humorously pointing out how ridiculous it is that people THANK god for sparing them, while destroying things and killing others.

My own statements about the way in which the decline of marriage contributes to the difficulties facing the working class were singled out as suggesting that unmarried women with children were somehow responsible — blaming the victim.

One of my favorite theologians put it this way: Jesus «dies as a criminal, under the curse of the Law — as if to say, «Look, I'm as guilty as you are in this situation because I set it up in the first place; let's just forget about blame and get on with the party» (Capon, The Mystery of Christ, 34).

The demands of society may force us to conform in all kinds of ways — in clothing, manners, food and sexual stereotypes — but we shouldn't blame God for this.

Rationally, isn't blaming religion for what we've done with merely another way of passing the buck?

Even though those who believe in a man - can - tell - when - it - is, end - of - days rupture do not represent a significant (neither majority) of Christians, reading the articles might mislead people to thinking every Christians believe in something like that (although the writer should not be blamed for it, since that group of believers were the ones who chose to represent Christ that way).

But when he had recovered a bit, Kirby called Martinez «my good friend» and blamed himself for not getting out of the way of the fastball.

Though scrupulously concerned not to attribute Jesus» «failure» in any way to his own shortcomings, the Principle does not hesitate to blame the Jewish people's unbelief, John the Baptist's cowardice, and Judas» betrayal as the causes of the crucifixion, which was an ignominious setback for God's plan.

They say nothing about divorce, but blame all of their disgusting ways of life on the gay community.

Is it possible and after reading about it i kept on thinking «i will sell to my soul for 20 carats get out shut up i will never ever sell my soul to you oh god please help me and this is continuing for a few days i am afraid that i have sold my sold to the devil have i please help and still i think god's way of allowing others to hate him us much worse even you know and can easily think think about much better punishments like rebirth after being punished for all the sins in life and i am feeling put on the sin of those who committed the unforgiviable sin (the early 0th century priests) imagine them burning in hell fire till now for 2000 years hopelessly screaming to god for help i can't belive the mercy of god are they forgiven even though commiting this sin keans going to hell for entinity thank you and congralutions i think the 7 year tribulation periodvis over in 18th century the great commect shooting and in 19th century the sun became dark for a day and moon was not visible on the earth but now satun has the domination over me those who don't belive in jesus crist i used to belive in him but now after knowing a lot in science it is getting harharder to belive in him even though i know that he exsists and i only belived in him not that he died for me in the cross and also not for eternal life and i still sin as much as i used to before but only a little reduced and i didn't accept satan as my master but what can i do because those who knowingly sin a lot and don't belive in jesus christ has to accept satan as their master because he only teaches us that even though he is evil he gives us complete freedom but thr followers of jesus and god only have freedom because they can sin only with in a limit and no more but recive their reward after their life in heaven but the followers of satun have to go to hell butbi don't want to go to hell and be ruled by the cruel tryant but still why didn't god destroy satun long way before and i think it was also Adam and eve's fault also they could have blamed satan and could have also get their punishment reduced but they didn't and today we are seeing the result

The way many Christians have come to understand and explain the crucifixion of Jesus, it almost seems as if God Himself was to blame for this violent act as well.

Unfortunately you have chosen to view God from a very painful perspective and I really don't blame you for thinking that way and it is very brave that you express your perspective so openly... But you have chopped pieces of the story and put them together way out of context.

By the way, by your logic we should blame any killing ever done by a Christian even if it wasn't done in the name of Christianity.