Not exact matches
They don't consciously choose their marriage and their
spouse; they stay in sexless, loveless,
unhappy marriages that are full of anger and contempt because of the kids or because they're afraid of
what they'll lose in a divorce or out of lethargy or because they value commitment over their
spouse — thus they can treat him or her like crap but still feel proud that they're keeping their commitment.
«
What we found is that folks who are somewhat
unhappy with their
spouse... then that's the effect that you find, so when they're less aroused or distressed during conversation, that's associated with greater likelihood of a good outcome,» he said.
If you have begun to associate your
spouse and the marriage, with being negative,
unhappy and trapped, unfortunately that is
what you are likely to experience and this will typically grow worse over time not get better unless you change something... In this episode you will learn
what to do if you only believe your together for the children.
It takes a little bit of detective work to discover
what makes your
spouse happy — and which things make them very
unhappy as well.