Not exact matches
The fact is that
physical attractiveness really matters
when people are getting to know each other (the first stages of online dating).
However, similarity and attraction are not limited to personality characteristics.2 Matching on other factors like age, education, socioeconomic status,
physical attractiveness, attitudes, and even name - letter initials has been linked to increased attraction and relationship satisfaction.3, 4,5,6 Despite the overabundance of scientifically - validated literature on the topic, I think no one has described the phenomenon better than Jerry Seinfeld
when he said,
In two studies of women, aged 18 - 25 and 30 - 40, respectively, researchers assessed the characteristics women value
when selecting males as long - term relationship partners versus selecting males as sperm donors.1 The women were randomly assigned to rate a series of characteristics desired in their «ideal man» as a sperm donor or their «ideal man» as a relationship partner, including
physical traits (e.g., height, body shape, hair and skin color, overall
attractiveness) and demographics (e.g., age, education, income, ethnicity, religious and political affiliations).
This makes evolutionary sense
when we consider that men often desire
physical attractiveness in a long - term partner (making it an important indicator of a woman's mate value) and women often desire social status in a long - term partner (making it an important indicator of a man's mate value).3
Specifically, they argued that people in relationships are especially in tune how their own
physical attractiveness stacks up relative to their partner.1 And
when an individual perceives their partner is the relatively more attractive one, they will do things, subtly and not so subtly, to keep their hotter partner all to themselves.
Creating beauty: creativity compensates for low
physical attractiveness when individuals assess the
attractiveness of social and romantic partners
Mixon, who also is studying the impact of
physical attractiveness in other areas, said it is important to note that «
attractiveness is not the «be all, end all» — it just helps to tip the scales
when competitors are otherwise equally talented or skilled.»