When using this approach, the goal is to have the dog associate his barking,
whining behavior with the loud noise... so that he comes to realize that to avoid the loud noise, he should quiet down.
In addition to not reinforcing
whining behavior, you need to reward your dog for being quiet.
Attention - Seeking Whining If your dog uses
whining behavior to seek attention, rewards or desired objects, you need to teach her that remaining quiet is a better strategy.
Indeed, according to Animal Humane Society, most attempts at punishing
the whining behavior inadvertently end up actually reinforcing it because your puppy is getting attention.
It quite often takes a dog predisposed to developing over attachment and an owner that reinforces attention - seeking
whining behavior, for hyper attachment to set in.
That means when you correct
the whining behavior, the dog often doesn't know why he is being corrected.
Yet, maybe because she was present when he died, she didn't express the anxious checking and
whining behaviors she showed when he went to the groomer or the vet.
Not exact matches
You can't intimidate from confronting you with your
behavior by calling it
whining.
If you
whine that I am taking these examples out of context, then I invite you to read the examples of god's
behavior again.
And he was a
behavior nightmare always
whining about his situation as a gunner.
Every time you pick up a
whining child you're providing a payoff for the
behavior.
When kids
whine — we DO SOMETHING and that something offers a payoff that makes the
behavior continue.
For a child who
whines, clings and displays attention - seeking
behaviors, she realizes that «Hey, this is a pretty effective way to get them to pay attention to me» or «Hey, this is a pretty effective tactic for me to get my way»... the child learns that
whining provides a payoff.
Read what other moms and dads do to stop kids»
whining and swap stories and advice about
behavior and discipline with other parents in the BabyCenter Community.
So each time you beg a picky eater to «take one more bite,» or you tell your child to «stop
whining,» you may be encouraging those
behaviors to continue.
* Tackle challenging
behavior in a way that works for you AND them * Instantly transformed defiance,
whining, tears, and NO!
no temper tantrums, talking back,
whining, etc. you have the freedom to implement your regular consequences for these
behaviors.
For minor behavioral issues, such as
whining, consider ignoring the
behavior.
The program helps parents make consequences more effective while reducing manipulative
behavior, such as
whining and begging.
Whining is an annoying, yet common
behavior problem in children.
Ignoring attention - seeking
behavior, such as
whining, is an effective form of
behavior modification.
Your older child may revert to
behaviors you haven't seen in some time such as crying or
whining, thumb - sucking, or using a pacifier.
In 2004, Marian Bakermans - Kranenburg, a professor of child and family studies at Leiden University, started carrying a video camera into homes of families whose 1 - to -3-year-olds indulged heavily in the oppositional, aggressive, uncooperative, and aggravating
behavior that psychologists call «externalizing»:
whining, screaming, whacking, throwing tantrums and objects, and willfully refusing reasonable requests.
Ignoring can reduce attention - seeking
behavior, such as
whining, temper tantrums, and talking back.
If this sounds like a typical day for you, then pick up The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums, and Tears, by parent educator, Elizabeth Pantley.
Recently, Mama Luxe was able to read Pantley's new book, The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums, and Tears, and chat with Pantley about her helpful parenting advice.
While the capacity to
whine comes with the package, the use of that
behavior is learned and reinforced by you.
I try to always respond gently and thoughtfully to their
behaviors, whether they are having a meltdown,
whining, tattling, questioning, or even challenging me.
Be patient, understand where does that
whining come from and try to help them go back to their normal
behavior.
Tamara Eberlein, Author
Whining: Tactics for Taming Demanding
Behavior and Sleep: How to Teach Your Child to Sleep Like a Baby
The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums, and Tears: Foreword by...
The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums...
The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums, and Tears: Foreword by Tim Seldin
First, it's important to note that such attention - seeking
behavior (
whining, crying, screaming, etc.) is a perfectly normal part of a young child's development.
As a rookie mom, one of the first books I took practical advice from — beyond how to get sleep and keep my infant alive — was The No - Cry Discipline Solution: Gentle Ways to Encourage Good
Behavior Without
Whining, Tantrums, and Tears (Pantley).
Often, preschoolers will react to a parent's trip by regressing to younger
behaviors, such as
whining or asking for a bottle.
The underlying concept is that
behaviors like crying,
whining, tantrums, lying, hitting, destroying property, etc. all stem from a child's unmet need.
Parents often give in to these
whines to make the
whining stop, but this only reinforces the attention - getting
behavior.
The result is a method of shaping
behavior that works on everyone from
whining children and lazy teenagers to sloppy spouses and cats who sit on the furniture.
Whitman, Cynthia WIN THE
WHINING WAR & OTHER SKIRMISHES: A Family Peace Plan Perspective Publishing, 1991 With a snappy style and clear presentation, this book seeks to reduce family conflict by helping parents distinguish children's
behavior that they like, dislike, and find intolerable.
Attention Seeking
Behavior Backtalk Biting Brushing Teeth Bullying Cursing Disrespect Hitting Ignoring Ignoring Consequences Inappropriate Soiling Know - it - alls Lying Manipulation Not Listening Picky Eating Power Struggles Sibling Rivalry Stealing Tantrums Thumbsucking When Good Kids Misbehave
Whining
Some
behaviors like crying or
whining can be ignored.
Child
behavior problem begins with irritating actions, including
whining tone, comments, or denial of your request.
Classroom Problem Solver: The Whiner Few
behaviors are more annoying to teachers than
whining.
And when you put logic, professional
behavior and facts against name - calling,
whining and bad
behavior, believe me, your colours will show very quickly to everyone.
Dogs display a number of
behaviors when they're in pain — panting, hiding,
whining or whimpering, restlessness, etc. — very rarely is howling a response to pain.
Behavior problems —
whining included — are usually stress related.
A puppy or dog chewing enthusiastically on a dog chew toy will be less likely to bark,
whine or engage in some other unwanted
behavior.
Dogs may drool, urinate and defecate (even housetrained dogs), bark, howl,
whine, pace, scratch, chew, dig, try to escape (like Taz) or exhibit other separation anxiety
behaviors.
After you have ensured that the dog's physical needs are being met, and that discomfort is not responsible for the
whining, do not hesitate to reprimand the dog for inappropriate
behavior.