Some states go even further and impose tort liability on the person
who alienates a child from the other parent.
Not exact matches
Based on interviews with 40 adults
who believe that — when they were
children — they were turned against one
parent by the
other, «Adult
children of parental alienation syndrome,» describes the experience of being an
alienated child from the inside and explains how it is possible that a
child can reject one
parent in order to please the
other.
He is experienced in filing against the
parent who has set out to
alienate a
child from the
other parent, sabatoge the bond between the
child and that
parent, and in every possible way remove that
parent and their family
from the life of the
child.
In some separated families, a
parent who is experiencing bonding difficulties with the
children will allege that the
other parent is attempting to
alienate the kids
from them... Read more
Since it is the
child who is being violated by a
parent's
alienating behaviors, it is the
child who is being
alienated from the
other parent.
A
parent who, either consciously or unconsciously, has either caused, or attempted to cause a
child, to become
alienated from the
other parent.
She says she's seen in extreme cases
parents who embroil their
children in the conflict, or
alienate them
from the
other parent while demanding loyalty, sharing too many details of the proceedings and speaking negatively about the
other parent and their family.
For example, in a survey of
parents who are targets of alienation, Baker and Darnell4 found that targeted
parents reported that alienators interfered with
parenting time (e.g., scheduled appointments or frequently called during the
other parent's
parenting time), interfered with contact with the
children (e.g., intercepted phone messages or email), interfered with symbolic contact like gift giving (e.g., threw away gifts or sent them back), did not inform them about important information (e.g., school activities, doctor appointments), threatened to take
children away
from the them, and formed unhealthy alliances with the
children such as having had their
children spy and report back information to the
alienating parent, or sending cell phones with
children to call the
alienating parent from the target
parent's home.
Alienating strategies include bad - mouthing or denigrating the
other parent in front of the
child (or within earshot), 2,3 limiting the
child's contact with the
other parent, 4 trying to erase the
other parent from the
child's mind (e.g., withholding pictures of the
child with the
other parent), 2 creating and perpetuating a belief the
other parent is dangerous (when there is no evidence of actual danger), 2 forcing the
child to reject the
other parent, and making the
child feel guilty if he or she talks about enjoying time with the
other parent.2 The impact of these behaviors on
children is devastating, but it also often has the opposite intended effect;
parents who denigrate the
other parent are actually less close with their
children than those
who do not.3
Parental Alienation Syndrome Intervention (Non-Profit) Resources for
parents who believe their
children are being
alienated from them by the
other parent
The courts are no longer prepared to put up with
parents who interfere with access and attempt to
alienate the
children from the
other parent.
They dig into the phenomenon of parental alienation to provide a deeper understanding of why people find and marry people
who will eventually
alienate their
children from them, how the
alienating parents «sell» the poisonous message to the
children, and how — sometimes when it seems least likely — the
alienated children and their lost
parents find their way back to each
other.
The heartache strains
other family relationships, like the distraught father
who avoids talking to his mother so he can keep his angst
from overflowing or the mortified sister
who inadvertently posted a FB link that upset the
alienating parent and ended the little contact her brother had with his
children.
By awarding custody of Kenneth to his father, the
parent who has poisoned Kenneth's mind and will likely continue to do so, Kenneth
alienates a
child from the
other parent may not be awarded custody based on that alienation.»
He is experienced in filing against the
parent who has set out to
alienate a
child from the
other parent, sabotage the bond between the
child and that
parent, and in every possible way remove that
parent and their family
from the life of the
child.
In
other words,
parents who unethically
alienate their
child against the
other parent use similar tactics that cults use to distance their members
from family, friends, and ex-members.
A
parent who has had a
child alienated from them by the acts of the
other parent could make out a claim against the
alienating parent to establish a cause of action for intentional infliction of emotional distress.
Attempts to
alienate the
child can be done in many different ways:
from moving far enough away (though legal) to make it terribly inconvenient for the
parent who may not have physical custody, to making overt / covert statements (better known as «bad - mouthing») about the
other parent.
Parents who attempt to
alienate the
child from the
other parent may be at a disadvantage in custody cases.
Gardner (2002) pointed out, «when true parental abuse and / or neglect is present the
child's animosity may be justified, and so the parental alienation syndrome diagnosis is not applicable» Johnston (2001) is right that it is «critical to differentiate the
alienated child (
who persistently refuses and rejects visitation because of unreasonable negative views and feelings)
from other children who also resist contact with a
parent after separation.