«Our study suggests fathers who are most effective are
those who listen to their children, have a close relationship, set appropriate rules, but also grant appropriate freedoms,» said Laura Padilla - Walker, co-author of the study and associate professor in the School of Family Life at BYU.
Any professional
who listens to children recount traumatic experiences is at risk of secondary traumatic stress, the emotional weight that some teachers carry after exposure to children who suffer.
Not exact matches
what makes me angry is your childish mentality that continues
to desperately believe in what is quite obviously false because you are so desperate
to have your piddly consciousness continue forever... it is like having an 18 year old
child who still believes in the Easter Bunny... and we have
to listen to your nonsense and have respect for it it..
Someone
Who Is Holy has children who don't fuss, they probably love to listen to classical mus
Who Is Holy has
children who don't fuss, they probably love to listen to classical mus
who don't fuss, they probably love
to listen to classical music.
I have stood in candlelight vigils with mothers
who have lost
children and have
listened to their pain.
The wife
who can sympathize and soothe when her husband comes home from work shattered and angry, and the husband
who can
listen without being threatened or critical when his wife has had a bad day with the
children, are satisfying their own need
to be needed as well as the other's need
to be temporarily dependent.
God Bless those
who will
listen, there are no second chances after we die, the time
to repent is now - You must be saved through the prayer of salvation
to Jesus Christ & God in order
to become one of Gods
Children -
Basically, the dems should have
listened more and respected that anyone
who doubted or questioned their reforms where not mindless vessels that just needed
to be treated like
children.
You
listen to a lonely homosexual man
who desperately wants
to be married, or a woman
who feels she had
to abort her
child, and everything in you wants
to affirm them and reduce their suffering.
We are not powerless and fearful, not us: and so I pray and I work; I make coffee in the morning and hot meals
to gather around the table at suppertime; I worship and sing out words of promise and praise; I raise
children and read good books; I pray for my enemies and write letters and send money and show up
to fold clothes and drop off meals with an extra bag of groceries; I advocate with the marginalized and amplify the oppressed and antagonize the Empire with a grin on my face; I will honour those
who get after the work of the Kingdom and celebrate; I learn how
to listen to those with whom I disagree; I abandon the idea that we can baptize sinful practices in the name of sacred purposes; I will stand in the middle of the field near my house with my face turned up
to the rain and consider it a minor baptism.
Heart surgery is full of meaning in every culture, but especially in Iraq, where fathers find themselves begging anyone
who will
listen to donate blood while their
child lies vulnerable in the operating room.
A
child asking what happens many years ago was told by an ignorant parent that the great god in the sky would let them live forever and ever if they
listen to mommy and daddy
who talk directly
to god.
We talked of daily Quiet Time, of Bible study, prayer and
listening, and of the power of God
to lead and guide those
who are obedient enough
to be led (Shoemaker,
Children of the Second Birth, pp. 148 - 49).
Mr Wallen said: «Today, there will be
children who are expressing appalling things on Facebook, they will be
listening to music with explicit, violent lyrics, they will be playing violent video games, they will talk
to one another in pretty derogatory and unpleasant terms but they won't kill their teacher at school and they won't kill anyone else.»
However, if you are just beginning
to institute training on an already rebellious
child,
who runs from discipline and is too incoherent
to listen, then use whatever force is necessary
to bring him
to bay.
Listen to what Simon says about the feeding of all the world's
children - Arthur Simon,
who for years was director of Bread for the World:
When we stepped away from that and enter into a deepest state of presence, then we entered into the present moment, then we can understand
who is our
child in the present moment,
listen to them with different years, with a different understanding, different insight and attuned
to them in a completely different way.
It's like teaching
children a lesson on the importance of not smoking, and then handing out ashtrays and lighters
to the kids
who did the best job
listening.»
And for every proponent of spanking out there, there are even more
who feel
children should be punished
to learn respect and
listen better.
So here's a big shout out
to all you moms out there
who survive those energetic days,
who read aloud
to your kids even though they are tired,
who help with homework,
who take your
child's education seriously,
who take the time
to listen to your kids read,
who make a difference.
For instance, a
child who doesn't
listen when told not
to throw a ball around in the house and breaks a lamp may have
to give up allowance money or do extra chores
to help pay for a replacement; a
child who is told not
to ride her bicycle in the street but does so anyway may have the bike taken away for the rest of the day.
Children who play imaginary games or
listen to lots of fairy tales, stories read aloud from books, or tales spun by those around them tend
to have noticeably better vocabularies.
Your
child has up
to a 1.7 % chance of having this outcome, and that's partially based on whether you have good nutrition, have high levels of vitamin k, have a c - section, take antibiotics during your labor... Do your research, ladies, instead of
listening to this doctor call people
who raise their kids without medicine «crazy».
I'm glad I didn't
listen to all the «experts»
who told me I needed
to force independence on my
children.
Talk
to a live person, not email, not a book, not a computer generated plan, a living breathing person
who listens and tells you how
to get your
child to sleep.
Speaking of stress, don't
listen to the people
who tell you they trained their
child in one day.
That will come as no surprise
to parents
who sing songs with their
child, sway and twirl together
to favorite music, or
listen to lullabies as they rock their
child to sleep.
We've noticed anecdotally that
children who's feelings get
listened to, (what Hand in Hand Parenting calls staylistening) tend
to need less sleep and often drop their naps earlier than other toddlers.
Once you're a mom, you're that
child's advocate and um, especially of course early on and in those early years when they can't verbalize or always verbalize what they need that
listen to your
child, get in tune with them so you can be their advocate and also realize that um, your
child may have a different temperament than you do and it doesn't make them wrong and it doesn't make you wrong but get
to know them and enjoy that
child and the blessing of
who they were created
to be.
This swing is ideal for a small
child who likes
to swing while
listening to tunes.
Children are most motivated
to listen to adults
who treat them with respect.
Really
listen to what your
child says when you ask her how school was, and ask specific questions such as, «
Who did you sit with at lunch today?»
Either I won't be able
to stick with it or I'll have an unruly
child who doesn't
listen to me.
If you feel something is «off» about your
child's attachment
to you or her behavior,
listen to your heart and not
to other parents / friends or family members
who are not experts in post-institutionalized
children.
Listen to the
child who is bursting out with his story.
The doctor could refer you
to a
child psychologist or psychiatrist, a developmental pediatrician, or another mental health professional,
who will probably give your
child various tests
to evaluate such things as his memory and his problem - solving and
listening skills.
Give your
child unique «once in a lifetime» experiences
to uplift him or her and find that one friend
who will just
listen to you when you need it.
But
to fully understand the scope of the problem, one need only
listen to the
children and their working - class parents
who arrive at the Barreto Boys and Girls Club daily.
Most of us are here because of our «You are the best parent for your
child» philosophy, that reminds us that we need
to pay attention and
listen and watch and learn about
who our specific little human is, from the moment we meet that
child, so that we can parent that specific
child they way they need
to be parented.
After I accepted that my daughter just was not a
child who was going
to sleep for long stretches at night (she will be two soon and still wakes
to nurse every two or three hours), it stopped bothering me, and now I, too, take those quiet moments
to breathe in her baby hair smell and
listen to her small sleepy sounds.
A good sound system that can be segregated by cabin areas is also a nice thing for
children who might want
to listen to, or watch, something on YouTube or Vimeo while you drive.
However, if you are just beginning
to institute training on an already rebellious
child,
who runs from discipline and is too incoherent
to listen, then use whatever force is necessary
to bring him
to bay.
These ten steps show you how
to «emotion coach» yourself
to stop yelling, start connecting, and raise a
child who «
listens» the first time you ask.
The particularly extraverted
child who never stops
to think before speaking is actually more likely
to offend people unintentionally than one
who listens and sits quietly rather than rushing into everything.
When your
child reaches the middle stages of childhood,
listening to the endless stories from your chatterbox or offering empathy and quiet support
to your dreamer will help them as they explore
who they are and
who they want
to be when they grow up.
This philosophy, termed «Attachment Parenting» by its champion, pediatrician and father of eight Dr. William Sears (author of the popular
child - care manual The Baby Book, among others), sees infants not as manipulative adversaries
who must be «trained»
to eat, sleep, and play when told, but as dependent yet autonomous human beings whose wants and needs are intelligible
to the parent willing
to listen, and
who deserve
to be responded
to in a reasonable and sensitive manner.
This process of showing feelings fully with someone
who will
listen is natural, healthy, and deeply beneficial
to the
child.
But over and over again, in thousands of situations, we have seen that
children whose feelings are
listened to become more confident, feel closer
to their parents, and feel closer
to the people
who listened while they cried.
Whether you take a class, read an Adlerian parenting book, watch a webinar series or
listen to a podcast... parents need
to learn about new ways of dealing with their
children if they are
to raise
children who are co-operative rather than obedient or domineering.
After popping out two very awesome kids and only being able
to breastfeed both of them for a maximum of two months if I was lucky, I learnt
to do what worked for me and my
children rather than
listen to someone
who was ill - informed, close minded and most of the time, just plain bloody rude.