Not exact matches
All I can say is that the same
feeling of «trapped» is basically what every single human
who questions the church
feels as a direct result of that same church
making them
feel «
guilty» in some way, hence the recoiling from it.
The Bible should not be twisted to
make it fit the things people
feel guilty and uncomfortable ----- This has been done throughout the history of the bible, and primarily by the people
who wrote and edited it.
But in abusive situations, the people
who do the wrong thing (the bully) are also the ones
who make the others
feel guilty.
I have also discovered that those people
who use the «standards» and «excellence» language most are those
who attempt to
make oppressed people
feel guilty for their own victimization.
Its an interesting and concerning that people can and do live in information silos (including me) and are kept their by leaders of institutional church
who want them to think in certain ways like you must come to sunday church and
made to
feel guilty if they do nt.
Also seduced by this appeal will be the insecure,
who may be
made to
feel guilty if they oppose the majority or
feel strong by joining forces with large numbers of other uncritical thinkers.
Making christians
who smoke
feel guilty and not good enough is a sin, smoking is not.
Racheal that is great God forgives you for your past decisions and he will help you to
make better decisions.It is the Lord
who empowers us to live the christian walk we cant do it in our strength because we all are weak.Our naturally inclination is towards sin that is why we must surrender all our heart to the Lord.In the past i tried to live as a christian in my strength and failed miserably i
felt guilty and condemned and powerless to change that is why we need the holy spirit.Since putting my trust in the holy spirit he has helped me to be an overcomer and live a christian life.I realise the quickest way of getting my life right is when i get thoughts that arent of the Lord to just admit them to him that i am weak and need his strength to help me and he does.He is your strength as well and will help you to become all he created you to be which is really awesome.In Christ you are more than an overcomer more than a conquerer.regards brentnz
Reminding yourself of the baby in the manger shouldn't
make you
feel guilty though, it should move you towards unending gratitude for the one
who gave it all.
Those
who had once been
made to
feel guilty for each purchase end up succumbing to materialism.
So too, this model
makes thoughtful people
who have perfectly reasonable doubts
feel guilty and rewards people
who either lack the concern or the intellectual curiosity to question their beliefs by
making them
feel like they have «strong» faith.
I don't want to
make you
feel guilty if you're just like the rest of us
who barely have time to get the dishes and laundry done, let alone
make a pantry look pretty!
and phdparenting, i love your post, i love the bravery for putting up the post despite those protesters
who are upset at the idea that some information should
make them
feel guilty about the way they do things.
I've resisted the urge to look at Facebook knowing it would
make me
feel guilty for not doing more, but I really believe we all needed the downtime, especially Sydney
who is so busy during the week and so utterly exhausted by Saturday lunchtime that she comes home and puts her PJ's on for the rest of the day.
Regarding the pressure to breastfeed, Tuteur says the movement
makes mothers
who have difficulty
feel unduly
guilty — and the supposed long - term health benefits that motivate women to breastfeed are not definitive.
Karen, I don't think the people
who conducted this study (or the people
who reported it on the Today Show) were trying to
make parents
feel guilty.
Everyone seems so obsessed about not
making mothers
feeling guilty about formula feeding as opposed to those
who want to breastfeed but are undermined by free formula.
As a society, breastfeeding needs to be encouraged, but in a gentle and supportive way, and women
who have problems should be offered help, and not
made to
feel guilty when they cant
The authors stress, however, that the findings are not a call to blame mothers
who do not breastfeed or
make them
feel guilty.
Anyone
who pushes or
makes someone
feel guilty needs to mind their own business!
I no longer
feel guilty about FF my daughter, thanks to all those
who made such SWEET comments
I include it not to
make you
feel guilty (and if you do suffer from parenting guilt, read this) but to help those readers
who are pregnant or expecting to become parents in the future.
The director Pascali - Bonaro was trying to change the cultural attitude that
made mothers
who had orgasmic births
feel guilty and shameful.
Wear your baby with pride in public, and go prepared with a gracious and gentle script for countering the comments of those
who seek to
make you
feel guilty for practicing this ancient and effective art.
While the people
who adopt are being provided financial help from the government until the adopted child is 18, moms are
made to
feel guilty for considering even some temporary assistance which would help them care for their own child.
Elsie, while I agree that we need to step back, and avoid
making women
who don't nurse
feel guilty, it's important to realize that, in fact «generations» were NOT raised on formula.
Ingall didn't say it but new mothers, even those
who are quite successful and tough in life, are vulnerable after birth and comments that
make them
feel guilty or inadequate can be detrimental.
Stop trying to decide for them and stop trying to
make feel guilty those mothers
who choose not to embark on this «beautiful journey».
The people
who are
making them
feel guilty are other mothers!
If you know people
who are trying to
make you
feel guilty or shameful for wanting to wean your baby before you go back to work,
make sure you let them know firmly that you are set in your decision.
I think if you want to keep going, than anyone telling you not to will seem like they are pushing their ideas onto you, and vice versa, if you really want to quit than you will
feel anyone
who is trying to help you continue is
making you
feel guilty.
I will happily keep pushing other moms — not to
make those
who decide not to
feel guilty, but to help those that want to.
«I also think that women
who choose formula from the start, for whatever reason, should not be
made to
feel guilty.»
Just about every diet does — they
make you
feel guilty for eating...
who wants to
feel guilty for eating?
You probably have other friends
who pester you or maybe even
make you
feel guilty for eating the way you do.
This was a perfect day organized by the team which
made me
felt a bit
guilty because it seemed like they knew all the GOOD spots of LA instead of someone
who had lived here for the past 5 years (me)!
How can you have a meaningful relationship without
feeling out of place, and
make your man see that you love him for
who... Dating a rich guy and
feeling guilty.
Not that Best Supporting Actor winner J.K. Simmons meant to
make us all
feel super
guilty that we only call our parents every once in a while, but when the man
who threw stools at Miles Teller's head tells you to call your parents you get the impression he means NOW.
Detroit, written and directed by white filmmakers, is suddenly decried as a story that never should have been told by the only people
who wanted to tell it, and The Beguiled is not a film anyone can talk about without being
made to
feel guilty.
Some people
who feed this to their dogs often
feel guilty that they are not
making the best choices for their pets.
Problem is, I've had people in my life
who would use lines like that to try to
make me
feel guilty when I wasn't giving them what they wanted.
I view them as superficial — a form of greenwashing that
makes the company look good in the eyes of customers
who want to
feel less
guilty about eating their McNuggets.
A child
who is exposed to continual criticism or dismissal of one of their parents and is
made to
feel guilty for wanting to have a relationship with that parent may reach the point where s / he is unable to remember anything good about the parent, or
feels angry at one parent without being able to say why.
Alienating strategies include bad - mouthing or denigrating the other parent in front of the child (or within earshot), 2,3 limiting the child's contact with the other parent, 4 trying to erase the other parent from the child's mind (e.g., withholding pictures of the child with the other parent), 2 creating and perpetuating a belief the other parent is dangerous (when there is no evidence of actual danger), 2 forcing the child to reject the other parent, and
making the child
feel guilty if he or she talks about enjoying time with the other parent.2 The impact of these behaviors on children is devastating, but it also often has the opposite intended effect; parents
who denigrate the other parent are actually less close with their children than those
who do not.3
I am disgusted by those parents
who abuse their children by denying them contact or
making them
feel guilty for loving the other parent.
The parent
who is able to engage in a more direct mode of communication often tries to
make the other parent,
who is appropriately trying to distance him / herself,
feel guilty.
And considering my post a few days ago about a certain blogger
who won't EVER leave me a post I started to
feel guilty for
making people
feel like they now HAD to leave a comment.