At least, the behaviors mimic what humans associate
with feeling shame or apology.
Not exact matches
Whatever
feelings you have trouble dealing
with — jealousy,
shame, inferiority, entitlement — transferring them to people you work
with and acting out in anger won't just make you and everyone around you miserable, it'll kill your career, too.
The session was designed to help women share strategies for returning to work, but every time I led this group, the discussion found its way to this one topic — dealing
with the
shame mothers
feel, knowing that if it were up to them, they would already be back at work.
What a turd, I hope god strikes him
with lightning twice...
shame on anyone giving this man donations... look at his picture he looks a little mentally disturbed to begin
with... I
feel bad for his family, especially his kids... imagine how goofy there going to be when they grow up...
The scripture dealing
with Judas having been better off not being born, simply relates to the
shame he will
feel in due time when he is resurrected on earth to find earth's billions acknowledging him as the betrayer of the world's saviour, yikes!!
Feelings of obligation or duty in this group are frequently coupled with anticipation of feelings of guilt or shame if one fails
Feelings of obligation or duty in this group are frequently coupled
with anticipation of
feelings of guilt or shame if one fails
feelings of guilt or
shame if one fails to act.
And yet over the course of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers of people struggle
with fear, guilt,
shame, and all sorts of terrible thoughts about God and others, and as I have learned more, I find that many of these
feelings come from a faulty view of God.
I don't care how many times or in how many forms the scenario plays itself out: It is an outrage, a
shame and a scandal and a sin, that the old and ill should
feel that they are alone
with their demons, that those demons render their lives worthless, and that the only sensible, charitable thing to do is to take themselves and the demons as far out of everyone else's way as possible.
No matter how painful your story or how much
shame you may
feel, God is strong and loving enough to deal
with it.
Like the part about women - blaming and
shaming combined
with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an emotional distance he
feels from us as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak mess of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.
I wanted people (including pastors) to have at least one place where they could
feel safe and could deal
with their sin and
shame.
I would not wish
shame and guilt and humiliation and deep filthiness to be
feelings I associate
with sex, therefore, in love for my neighbour, I can not condone teachings that impart these
feelings to our young people.
I had a wake - up call a few weeks ago because I was
feeling mad at my own church for making me so busy, and I was
feeling shame at the reality that I spend most of my time
with Christians, and most of those Christians go to my church.
Here there is a good summary of thepain the disorder causes, which Hill has been trying to describe throughout the book, namely «the struggle to be faithful to the gospel's «terrible decree» that we must hold in check our strongest urges and not engage in homosexual activity; the struggle to belong, to find the end of loneliness; and the struggle
with shame,
with nagging
feelings of being constantly displeasing to God» (p. 127).
This survey confirmed what I was seeing in the therapy room, but nonetheless made disturbing reading: 49.8 per cent reported mental health problems as a result of their behaviour, such as anxiety and depression; 65 per cent struggled
with low self - esteem; 70 per cent
felt shame and 19.4 per cent had experienced a serious desire to commit suicide.
I couldn't deal
with it... I became very angry and the amount of
shame and guilt you
feel when you are doing things that you know aren't healthy and you cant tell anybody, and it becomes for me a source of anger.»
Kinda makes a poor judge of character, so if you are willing to debate freely in a conversation on life, the world, the pursuit of knowledge, and all the unknowns in the world
with an underage male, then I encourage you to continue the debate freely, but if you
feel outmatched in a knowledge criteria and you wish to avoid
shame of not understanding enough or even not knowing enough (because they are different) then i will gently step aside as not to harm your ego.
Often it's because I am unfamiliar
with the lingo and language, so I leave
feeling kinda stupid and
shamed.
Instead, a lot of us struggle
with feelings of worthlessness, impurity, and
shame, even well into our adult lives and our marriages.
worthlessness, inferiority, and unworthiness I made you
feel different I told you there was something wrong
with you I soiled your Godlikeness MY NAME IS TOXIC
SHAME I existed before conscience Before guilt Before morality I am the master emotion I am the internal voice that whispers words of condemnation I am the internal shudder that courses through you without any
I came upon you when you were magical Before you could know I was there I severed your soul I pierced you to the core I brought you
feelings of being flawed and defective I brought you
feelings of distrust, ugliness, stupidity, doubt worthlessness, inferiority, and unworthiness I made you
feel different I told you there was something wrong
with you I soiled your Godlikeness MY NAME IS TOXIC
SHAME
I struggled
with guilt and
shame but
felt freedom at the same time.
It is «a sense of brokenness,» he says, «the
shame of
feeling «this is not the way it's supposed to be»
with my body, my psyche, my sexuality.»
I
felt like, to protect my girlfriend from the
shame of being in a relationship
with a non believer, I should go to church and pretend.
For the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I
feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing
with issues such as fear of rejection, failure,
shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday life.
Shame implies the peculiarly human concern
with self - perfection, guilt the sense of personal responsibility, whereas awe recognizes powers not under human control and beyond human comprehension, before which we
feel shamefully small.
Christine, are you sure you are not confusing a normal
feeling of conscience induced guilt (a good thing normally)
with the abusive process of using
shame as a means of control?
All of us wrestle in the darkness against a variety of selves: (1) the old self which
shames us and still seeks to control us; (2) the sensitive self that is quick to
feel slight and rejection; (3) the compromising self that says, «I am going to get along
with things as they are»; (4) the anxious self that dreads insecurity — loss of health, job, family.
I do wonder if it might be more about
shame - avoidance than about
shame — maybe a sort of «pass - the - parcel»
with the painful
feelings most of us would rather not
feel?
I say this not only because I have written my own quite secondary and entirely derivative work on Hans Urs von Balthasar (when faced
with his greatness I
feel no
shame in «deriving» what I can), but also because I can recall works on major thinkers that have bracingly changed my outlook on them.
I was filled
with shame and sadness, and went to my room,
feeling some strange pain in my middle parts, down by my spleen or gall bladder.
I absolutely am in love
with plums - a
shame they don't grow in Hawai'i, I
feel guilty buying them, but is there anything more decadent than eating one over the sink on a hot day?!
Mark Schwarzer battled and lost in the race to play regular football
with the Blues previously, but
feels no
shame in hailing his former team - mate as the best in the country.
as for cowardly ozil who always get a flu before big matches, shameful, the only reason a player should be left off defensive work is the player must be atleast 80 % efficient on the attack, such a player must have the ability to dribble or take on defenders on his own, shot thunderly and scare the hell out of defenders
with his movements... such a player is hazard, sorry we couldn't get him cos our dumb coach
felt he was too expensive and arsenal didn't even pose tittle abilities like Chelsea, hazard didn't even consider arsenal... since van persie left sanchez had been the only player to question wenger's credentials and now wenger must be regretting ever signing him now... the words of manuel neuer «player arsenal was like an holiday»...
shame on wenger...
The Blues have picked up just one point from their opening two Premier League fixtures, and Jose Mourinho has been unhappy
with the displays put in by his Chelsea charges, even electing to name and
shame seven players who he
feels are below - par (via Sky Sports).
lst season at stamford bridge, was the first time i saw that 4 -1-4-1 formation being used, and for some weird reason i
feel a very strange negative vibe and well all know the outcome.the manager has come back
with this formation and its not yielding result, but he still sticks
with it.i do nt know much about formations dear friends, but if you are playing a slow dm in arteta and a very very slow cb, then you are toast against quality teams
with sound tactics.wen playing wellbeck as a lone striker, i think 4 -2-3-1, will work better, but if we have a big player like oliver (boooos), thn we can try the 4 -1-4-1, thingy cos he can hold the ball for our midfielders to run in.but on the overall,
shame on wenger for not giving our defence a good cover DM.NO BODY PLAYS A SLOW DM / CB AND EXPECT TO B REGARDED AS CHAMPIONSHIP MATERIAL.IT HURTS GUYS, REALLY HURTS.
This should even tell us about the potential of Szczesny to win golden glove
with this defence.What a keeper he is the one i
feel sorry for in whole arsenal team thrown in at 19 years old behind an ever shaky defense then see where he is now being called shit.it is a real
shame i
feel so sorry for him because i wonder what if he was 19 years then started at Chelsea would he still be like this and lack confidence.I love you Szczesny wherever you are.
our mental attitude, belief and motivation is what is really killing us,
shame we do not have a manager who can make even the most average of players
feel like they are Pele or Maradona, because if Wenger is such a manager, we would have been out of sight of the other by now, and yes,
with Flamini and all the other lightweights in the squad in tow
If we can secure a 2 - 0 loss I will certainly
feel no
shame or pain going through the youtube comment section as I relax
with some ArsenalFanTV and chill.
You sound as if Wenger is the best manager or the best economist in the world if he
feel he is then he should have been the manager of World Bank and not Arsenal Fc... its such a
shame people fail to realise that
with money u can get the best manger, medical staffs, lawyer, accountant and the rest and Arsenal has that Money why not sack Wenger and get a good manger, the board as well and replace them
with competent once who can balance Arsenal ON and OFF the pitch...... pls stop seeing Wenger as football god..
Winning the FA cup for the past 2 years was more relieving of the
shame of the trophy drought than it
felt me
with pride.
personally i don't
feel the transfer business
with exception to Sanchez is that of a team pushing for the bpl let alone the CL i
feel its a
shame but its not all doom and gloom as we have alot of players to come back and still time left in the transfer window to make something happen... in Wenger we trust ay * coversface
It is a
shame because I
felt very good
with the team, I think I made a good start to the season, so to be off the pitch for almost six months was difficult to deal
with.
A club
with ambition wouldn't have OG as our main striker, only at Arsenal you'll find the manager, and most of his players to be so incompetent and lack ambition, and still don't
feel any
shame
Great Reception???, tell you the truth Im not one of those gunners who started supporting the gunners during the invicibles or early Wenger double winning years, quite honestly i wasnt ineterested in football and I liked a certain Crespo and Shevchenko meaning I liked the blue half of London, surprisingly when Mourinho joined I stopped watching football all together, till one glorious Champions League Night, It was my first ever Match there was a certain 20 year old highly rated youngster who scored a wonder goal that day he played
with such skill and passion ever since then I started supporting arsenal that was during the barren years.I actually liked Barcelona because of their similarity
with the arsenal, so when Fabregas joined Barca I started to watch them a bit more I still loved Arsenal and I was extremely passionate, the other players i adored left in painful manners, while some left which was still painful: i.e Eboue.I always taught cesc would come back and when it was official he was leaving Barca i said Finally almost hosting a party.Well reports started coming out that he is going to join chelsea and i laughed so hard and said he would be the last player on earth to do that, when it became official words cant express how i
felt, He was the reason I started watching football he lit up the emirates
with exquisite touches through balls to walcott, its a
shame I would have preferred he joined bayern, or remained in barca its terrible reading the comments he made recently about the emirates, This was a captain, someone who led, anyways, like ive learnt and Arsenal have learnt, We do nt live in the past Like Liverpool (no pun) WE ARE THE PRESENT AND THE FUTURE (Crowley)(Puma) WE ARE ARSENAL.....
I
feel shame to be dealing
with this all over again, but am grateful to read a story of someone else dealing
with it and how getting medications straightened out can bring such relief.
I am done
with the embaressment and
shame, the
feelings of rejection.
I did sit
with a horrible guilty
feeling knowing that my gal was a real howler (that would put any werewolf to
shame) post nap and it was unfair to expect this DVD to perform miracles.
The guys dealing
with crying (start by putting on headphones, crank them up, and take the baby for a walk in the stroller) report back they get good at it and the
feelings of frustration (and
shame) turn into one of «dad to the rescue».
I'd prefer to let people tell their stories in what they can
feel is a safe place, and hopefully received
with kindness, and
with no judgment or
shaming.