Sentences with phrase «with feelings and behaviors»

«Are you having a problem with your marriage, job, family, or living with feelings and behaviors that you want to change?

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Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert and the author of «Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job,» says you don't have to be best friends with your manager, «but you can achieve optimal creativity and success if you feel that you're liked, supported, and respected by them.»

You can see the ethical dilemma in a basic - income experiment: You're toying with people's financial health, and, by judging your endpoints based on feelings, you're tinkering with and assessing human behavior.

Typically used to explain away someone's poor behavior, like the top salesperson who treats people badly or the great engineer who is rude during meetings, the loose translation of this statement is, «Even though it's my job as a boss to address this issue, and I wouldn't let anyone else behave that way, I don't feel like dealing with it.»

Talk to your sales team, customer service representatives, and anyone else in your organization who has direct contact with your customers and can give insight into their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

Not surprisingly, those who feel overwhelming financial stress have poor money management behaviors, with only 8 % of this group having an emergency fund, a mere 14 % comfortable with the amount of debt they are carrying, 18 % having a handle on their cash flow, 53 % paying their bills on time and 34 % carrying a loan or hardship withdrawal from their 401 (k) plan.

The quits ratio is highly correlated with how Americans feel about the job market and is especially helpful because it separates behavior from intentions, showing «what people are doing, not what they say they'll do,» Colas said.

Interacting with the new BitPay API should feel very familiar, and should exhibit extremely predictable behavior — like most other APIs on the modern web, we're modeling our API on Roy Fielding's REST architecture to reduce the complexity over other models.

Nancy worked with Sonja to create her «money genogram,» a visual family tree that helped her understand her personal money patterns and her family's history and patterns around money behaviors, beliefs, feelings and relationships (see my previous article).

They feel that they have some god given right to be up in everyones face with their beliefs and then take offense when people take exception to their rude behavior.

These include: the feeling of deep trust and at - homeness inside oneself, with others, and in the universe; a fundamental respect for self, others, and nature; the ability and the inclination to give and receive love; a lively awareness of the wonder of the commonplace — awe in the presence of a new baby, a sunset, a friendship; a philosophy of life that makes sense and guides decisions toward responsible behavior; a dedication with enthusiasm to the larger good of persons and society.

These therapies contrast with all the «insight therapies» derived from Freud, which regard dynamic inner changes in attitudes, feelings, and self - perception as the primary means of therapeutic change including changes in behavior.

I agree with this statement as far as it goes; the only problem I have with it is that I feel like there is a basic assumption here that it is easy and obvious to tell what behaviors of our own or others are predatory and destructive and which are not.

We take our inhuman behavior; we bless it with religious phrases and religious jargon; then we beat on one another in the name of God so that Catholics and Protestants feel justified in killing each other in Ireland, and Christians and Moslems do likewise in Lebanon.

A small group provides a catalytic learning situation with... emotional involvement and safety, under the guidance of a leader - facilitator, in which intellectual, feeling and behavior learning can best take place.

So, something traumatic happens to you and instead of grieving that and going through that process, you stuff all those feelings in, you hide behind the mask of emotional strength, you keep taking care of everybody else, you keep working, and then you start engaging in self - medicating behaviors: you start binge - eating, you put a lot of focus on your physical appearance, you do a lot of makeup, hair, clothing, compulsive shopping, you start picking up these other health problems associated with these behaviors.

Brain - wave biofeedback training involving learning to increase one's alpha waves (associated with a relaxed, tranquil feeling state) has been used with some success in treating neuroses, psychoses, and behavior problems.

stage); projection (onto others of the feelings or impulses eliciting anxiety); rationalization (giving oneself and others reasonable excuses for unreasonable behavior); denial (of threatening aspects of reality); introjection (seeking protection by identifying internally with a feared person or idea); reaction formation (denying threatening impulse by going to the other extreme in one's behavior — e.g., denying repressed rage by behaving in super «loving» ways); intellectualizing (avoiding threatening feelings by chronic «head - tripping»).

Berne's second major concept is that of ego - states; he says that our behavior patterns, with their associated feelings, are «a limited repertoire... which are psychological realities... [the products of] the human brain... are organized and stored in the form of ego - states.»

For instance, the wife is working with the illusion that she was «no longer felt safe or loved» and «was suddenly bombarded with lies» when she found out that the behavior of her husband was not that of her understanding of their unspoken rules.

At least, our experience of the animals with whom we live is that they exhibit behaviors similar to many of our own; that those behaviors clearly seem to be signs of emotional and mental qualities familiar to us from our own knowledge of ourselves; that animals possess distinctive individual traits, characteristics that are irreducibly personal (even if we feel obliged to recoil from that word on metaphysical principle), their own peculiar affections and aversions, expectations and fears; that many beasts command certain rational skills; and that all of this makes some kind of natural appeal to our moral sense.

When death strikes a family circle, there are socially prescribed patterns of behavior and feeling which help the persons involved cope with the crisis.

As Justin investigated these testimonies further, he learned that most followed a pattern in which the gay man developed attractions to men during puberty, acted on those feelings at some point (usually destructively, with anonymous sex, drugs, and other addictions), found that life to be unfulfilling, reconnected with Jesus, and walked away from their past behaviors.

The latter regulates behavior and conduct, while the former has to do with the riches of the mind, the feelings of the heart, and the disposition of the will.

It does this by creating a climate of acceptance — of feelings and impulses (around which irrational guilt often forms)-- and by confronting the young person with the need to change irresponsible, self - other hurting behavior (the source of appropriate guilt).

Moralism, concerned with controlling surface behavior, arouses neurotic guilt feelings about sex, anger, and ethical trivia, and is the product of an authoritarian conscience.

I'm fourteen years old starting my road to recovery and it's very fearing and to know that I have to live with it scares the living daylight a out of me I can't speak much about my cognitive behavior therapy because I've only really doing assements but I'm writing this for myself and yourself I haven't always been religious but in times of fear and need know that you aren't alone God is always there and even wen your in your worse state I usally just lay down meditate a bit and speak to my father God and he always gives me a sense of relief this past week I feel like I have been a constant circle of fear but I would always freak out and be scared for no reason but just know that more than 44 million people have this you are br alone and one day you will meet your savior Jesus christ he put you in a test of life and he's going to congratulate you, you must wait for him and on another note if any one knows how to deal with the fear of the future or staying in a constant state please email me at [email protected] thank you so much everyone and there is a recovery maybe but today or Tommie but you will overcome

If from the beginning of the year the classroom is stable and reliable, with clear rules, consistent discipline, and greater emphasis on recognizing good behavior than on punishing bad, students will be less likely to feel threatened and better able to regulate their less constructive impulses.

With consistent messaging and constant reinforcement of the value of immediate concussion reporting in achieving your team's performance goals, and by making athletes feel comfortable in reporting, we believe that, not only will attitudes and beliefs about concussion reporting begin to change, but the concussion reporting behavior of your athletes will start to change as well, and that, over time, the culture of resistance to concussion symptom reporting will be replaced by a sports culture of concussion safety.

He was honest with me, too, and I remembering feeling at the time that our level of honesty and shared bad behavior gave us a certain special something that connected us more than other couples — Yeah, we both cheated, we know the warning signs, we know the damage it does and we don't need to go there again.

Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with breastfeeding, and since breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam up about it while quietly giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).

They either «stuff» those feelings, ignore them and try to move on, or they engage in externalizing behaviors including drinking, drugs, gaming, porn, having affairs, going over-the-top with their exercise routines, and / or having angry outbursts.

But with practice they'll be able to name and express their feelings, and eventually the behavior will change.

Try to foster an open, honest, and non-defensive relationship with your child's teacher so that they feel comfortable telling you about any bullying behavior your child has displayed or if your child has been on the receiving end of bullying.

Never allowed to express their true feelings, and having lost touch with their true selves, they act out their repressed feelings with episodes of depression and compulsive behavior.

With a caring, supportive, strengths - based focus, and a touch of humor, Colleen uses a variety of approaches and interventions such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Play Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Mindfulness and Harm Reduction Strategies in order to help clients achieve their goals, feel empowered and realize their full potential.

In a world filled with seemingly constant criticism of moms, Emily tries to be a voice of support and respect for moms who feel blamed for their child's behaviors.

Many kids cry or display separation anxiety when their parents leave them with a new sitter, so pay more attention to your child's behaviors and feelings when you return and not when you are walking out the door.

We don't punish him because instead we're trying to empathize with the needs behind his behaviors and to help him start to identify his feelings.

Her counsel consisted of, among other things, understanding the whole child, understanding the development of the child, positive reinforcement, affirmation of a child's feelings and discipline with love as correction of negative behavior.

«Our behavior is driven by our perception of our world, so if children feel they are not getting enough time and attention from parents then those feelings have to go somewhere and it appears in interaction with their peers,» said Christie - Mizell, an associate professor of sociology and licensed psychologist specializing in family therapy and the treatment of children with mood and behavior disorders.

Annalise works with young people and their parents towards understanding these often frightening feelings from a neurodevelopmental and physiological perspective, uncovering the origins of challenging behaviors and providing strategies and tools rooted in the latest developments in Interpersonal Neurobiology and mindfulness.

Help your child experiment with new behavior and different reactions until he feels confident about making healthy decisions.

Praise your child's good behavior and traits often, and help them realize how good it feels inside to do a good deed or be generous with another person.

Behavior management techniques are used to help a child feel relaxed and confident, to guide a child in coping with dental treatment, and to complete dental treatment as efficiently and as safely as possible.

This does not mean that you agree with their feelings or their behaviors, but that you understand they're upset and you're willing to listen.

Cognitive - Behavioral Therapy uses small rewards or successes as motivators to replace negative thoughts, feelings, and behaviors with more useful ones, in a systematic, stepwise manner.

Some general goals of Gentle Discipline include making our children feel safe with us, feeling that they are partners in their relationship with us, and finding ways for children to find better choices for behavior as opposed to simply teaching them to stop a behavior that we deem inappropriate.

-- you have to think through this one, come up with something valuable and it really makes the child feel good, which encourages repeat behavior.

But the nice part, the girl who at first thought my son was going to be a pain, became my big time advocate and was sooo furious with the steward she stood up for me and then went to complain about his behavior, this made me feel so good!!!»