If one or both of you feel the need to foster secrets, it's likely that the relationship will continue down a rocky road
with feelings of resentment and uncertainty.
Not exact matches
If you've been
feeling stuck, Leeana's life - giving words in Begin Again will show you how to forgive yourself, develop new and healthier patterns
of living, and do away
with resentment and regret.
However, I still
feel a lot
of anger and
resentment towards how things are dealt
with within the church.
Of those who do present themselves for the sacrament, most receive only the bread,
with feelings ranging from deep
resentment at being left out to mild rejection.
The emptying nest brings genuine grief
with its constellation
of many
feelings — sadness,
resentment, guilt, emptiness, and depression.
Here's what I'm discovering that's pretty consistent
with all groups: pastors are burning out and full
of frustration and
resentment because they don't
feel free to be themselves or to be authentic.
By listening in depth to what each person is
feeling as well as saying, and by responding
with warmth and understanding, the counselor helps them drain off the paralyzing pressure
of resentment and guilt.
I
feel remarkably blessed to be faced
with little more than petty arguments and silly
resentments in my life... especially in a world
of so much injustice.
The men I work
with have gone through every kind
of anger,
resentment, and despair, but most have come to
feel profound gratitude for their punishment.
Naturally, many Arsenal fans will review the list
of names above, and
feel a sense
of resentment towards Arsene Wenger, along
with the Arsenal scouting network.
The anticipated joy and pleasure
of parenthood is replaced
with feelings of fear, sadness, anger, confusion and
resentment.
Maybe it's about
feeling invisible, about not having a career, about not
feeling able to voice her
resentment over
feeling distant from her husband because
of the intensity
of her intimacy
with her child.
Dealing
with guilt,
resentment, overwhelm, stress, sense
of failure, self - sacrifice... and all the other
feelings that come up
I
feel that if you are uncomfortable
with breastfeeding, that «bonding time» that should help build trust, will lead instead to frustration,
resentment, and, at least in my experience, a
feeling of failure; formula feeding both
of my sons still gave me the wonderful experience
of nurturing, caring for, and bonding.
Concern about immigration itself was coupled
with a dangerous
feeling of resentment towards the political class who had overridden public opposition while silencing debate.
Their
resentment began
with the A-list — which they
felt told them their faces didn't fit — and its effects linger still: they will seize on the Louise Mensch - caused Corby byelection as evidence
of the frivolity
of a project that prized fashion (in their view) above proven track records.
It arises from lack
of progress, confusion,
feelings that one's being dealt
with unfairly, i.e.
resentment.
Resist the «when in Rome» mentality and you won't have to work so hard
with the damage control or
feelings of shame and
resentment.
Penn Badgley (Margin Call, TV's Gossip Girl) stars as the infamous Jeff Buckley, struggling
with feelings of neglect,
resentment, love and longing for the father who abandoned him — folk rock icon Tim Buckley (Ben Rosenfield).
Somewhere in the back
of his head, David knows this, and has subsumed any
resentment a son would naturally
feel in such a relationship
with his father.
This leads to
feelings of resentment and humiliation, along
with a need to show his true
feelings.
The problem
with mortgage writedowns is that most taxpayers would consider this vastly unfair — if their neighbor gets a loan written down to the home's worth and they don't it would fuel plenty
of resentment and probably lead to a lot more strategic defaults — why would anyone
feel bad about blowing off a mortgage when doing the right thing just makes you a chump?
«I never
felt any kind
of resentment toward me because I was a woman... I had none
of the hang - ups to deal
with that the women in New York had to deal
with,» artist Sonia Gechtoff said.
Many
of our career counseling clients approached us
with feelings of frustration,
resentment, anger, anxiety, intimidation and apprehensiveness that were blocking their happiness and full potential.
Whether recently laid off or
feeling imminently near a breaking point
with your current career role, the
feelings of angst, vulnerability, frustration and, sometimes even anger and
resentment, mount quickly.
Eventually any intimacy (which is different than sex) between them died and was replaced
with anger,
resentment and a
feeling of rejection.
For a couple
with this kind
of hidden suffering, the displaced
feelings of resentment will condense onto convenient conflicts over control and respect.
The process
of making amends and what must be in place for the process to effectively unfold [24:35] How does shame affect our ability to
feel and express remorse, and why doing inner work around our shame is essential preparatory work for rebuilding relationships [27:40] Healing relationships by working
with our 4 R's:
resentments, respects, regrets, requests [30:33] The willingness to be vulnerable and why emotional responsiveness plays an essential role [31:16] How masculine and feminine typologies, expectations, and gender norms affect our expressions
of vulnerability, and how to unpack what lies beneath [34:28] Differences in communication styles between the masculine and feminine poles
of a relationship, and how communication styles affect not only our primary relationships, but our familiar relationships and friendships, too.
If you want to deepen or renew your loving relationship, but you and your partner are stuck «throwing rocks» at each other because
of the pain
of resentments, betrayal,
feeling unloved or overburdened
with life's challenges.
Wanting to believe it is a nightmare, the betrayed spouse may have difficulty
with ongoing
feelings of anger,
resentment and betrayal, which may also make it difficult to listen to her spouse, even if she wishes to repair their marriage.
The initiator
of the divorce
feels fear, relief, impatience,
resentment, guilt, doubt and the other party
feels betrayed, losing control, victimized, low self esteem, insecure, angry and tries to «get even»
with the initiator.
In therapy, these partners learn that everything they tried came
with the same
feelings of frustration and
resentment, and landed on their partner
with the same, negative message.
- Your
feelings of loneliness, frustration or
resentment will be eased - You will
feel more loving and peaceful
with your partner - You will
feel less anxiety that the relationship is deteriorating and that conflict is escalating
Eroticism can not blossom in an environment filled
with chronic anger,
resentment, power plays, blaming, withdrawal, hurt
feelings, sadness, resignation, defensiveness, lack
of trust, poor communication, or ambivalence about intimacy and commitment.
Maybe you
feel anger and
resentment toward your partner or are struggling
with the aftermath
of an affair but really want to save the relationship.
Too much doing things the «couple way» will not help foster a healthy relationship, as it can leave the partners
feeling out
of touch
with themselves, thereby building
resentment.
There are many reasons behind what causes distance between spouses / partners: anger, pent up
resentments, a break down in communication, a lack
of trust, emotional insecurities (insecurities
with yourself or about your partner), a natural need for more personal space — it may be as simple as needing to create a little more distance because you
feel emotionally more comfortable from a more distant place
of relating.
Past hurts that are not dealt
with often lead to ongoing
feelings of resentment, frustration and anger.
Over time, these situations begin to weigh on you and can lead to a plethora
of unhealthy patterns filled
with resentment, anger, passive - aggressiveness, emotional reactivity, a deep
feeling of emptiness, disconnection, lack
of empathy, hopelessness and a general, underlying sense
of anxiety and / or depression.
The limited comparison possible between the first and second GUS birth cohorts suggested a decrease in the proportion
of parents
with negative
feelings about parenting, such as incompetence,
resentment, impatience and irritation.
The whole system suffers and
feelings of fear, hopelessness, guilt, anger, and
resentment are free - floating
with no useful direction.
the SF12 - see chapter 10) and
feelings about parenthood, such as their levels
of patience or
feelings of irritation when spending time
with their child,
feelings of confidence as a parent, and
resentment about sacrifices made to be a parent (see chapter 5).
On the other hand, families who are not successfully able to resolve conflicts experience high levels
of aggression, they frequently disagree
with one another, compete
with one another, generate
feelings of jealousy and
resentment, all due to the fact that they
feel neglected or rejected.
If children are not provided
with these opportunities, they build
resentment and act out their
feelings, which may cause behavior problems and increases the odds
of delinquency and drug use during adolescence.