This really deals
with that shame as Ogden shares: «As the guys in our church walk through that, you could just see that flame of hope kind of rekindle, and going, «I not only believe what they're saying is true, but I think it could be true for me.»
I know that's probably not the case, and there's some logical explanation, but I am in full blown Benson mode right now geeking the hell out, physically leaning into their conversation
with no shame as I type this.
Chicago Times «The cheeks of every American must tingle
with shame as he reads the silly, flat, and dishwatery utterances.»
Not exact matches
The memo mentions the crowdsourced anti-Breitbart campaign known
as «Sleeping Giants,» which encourages Twitter users and those on other social networks to
shame large companies into not doing business
with Breitbart.
The «Keeping Up
with the Kardashians» star certainly knows by now that she can never please everyone — so our guess is that she treated this strange form of mom -
shaming like business
as usual.
That is a
shame because the benefits of those rules exceed their costs by a substantial margin — not just nationally but within each individual electricity market region —
as demonstrated in my latest paper
with UT Austin Law Professor David Adelman.
«Working
with narcissists can be very difficult,
as their sense of self - worth is rooted in trauma and
shame,» Weiss says.
What matters, in these cases, is that someone on your team is brave enough, vulnerable enough, to use a sentence that starts
with, «The story I'm making up right now is...» The idea is to reach the truth
as quickly possible, instead of wandering around
with your made - up explanation, which more than likely consists of your own
shame triggers, and has little relation to reality.
He joins a growing list of male investors and tech executives who recently lost their jobs or faced public
shaming over sexual harassment scandals
as more women come forward to report incidents — a trend experts say is reshaping how Silicon Valley deals
with allegations of inappropriate behavior.
We're hierarchical primates, so of course we create a notional Top Primate to «run» things (
as if they needed it); it's a
shame, though, that we can't seem to come up
with ones
with morals better than our common despots».
Like the cartoon above, those guys can insult, abuse, frighten, control and
shame him, but
as soon
as he swears he's the one
with issues.
But we...
with unveiled face, beholding
as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just
as by the Spirit of the Lord... looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the
shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God» 2Corinthians 3, Hebrews12)
It's just a
shame that we haven't come to the point in society where it should be required that those who make decisions must meet certain, more highly regulated, fool proof, corruption resistant criteria proving their intellect and open mindedness
as well
as weeding out individuals
with preconceived notions, racist, sexist or religiously or other discriminative views (even if they themselves don't believe they are discriminative in their beliefs... this happens more than many people realize) and overall ignorant minds.
I would also say that there are many mothers that are disgusted
with their daughters in these movies and I'm sure any males that are in these are also a
shame on their famililes
as well.
The scripture dealing
with Judas having been better off not being born, simply relates to the
shame he will feel in due time when he is resurrected on earth to find earth's billions acknowledging him
as the betrayer of the world's saviour, yikes!!
And yet over the course of writing my blog, I have found that vast numbers of people struggle
with fear, guilt,
shame, and all sorts of terrible thoughts about God and others, and
as I have learned more, I find that many of these feelings come from a faulty view of God.
I don't care how many times or in how many forms the scenario plays itself out: It is an outrage, a
shame and a scandal and a sin, that the old and ill should feel that they are alone
with their demons, that those demons render their lives worthless, and that the only sensible, charitable thing to do is to take themselves and the demons
as far out of everyone else's way
as possible.
I love it because of your honesty, and I love it because I think it echoes what a lot of people experience in churches when they suspect abuse, but don't say anything - the ignoring of the intuitions, the pull of «belonging» to the greater group, the
shame associated
with telling, the pain when they * do * tell and then are immediately ostracized (so painful, when I'm guessing you thought you «belonged» at the table, and were only participating
as you thought you had right to?
Like the part about women - blaming and
shaming combined
with the pastor digging up offenses from the past, referencing an emotional distance he feels from us
as we leave, citing his own pastoral involvement and authority in the decisions of our lives up to this point, threatening to talk to the pastor of the church we're visiting to share his «concerns,» and suggesting that I'm just a weak mess of emotions and that's why I can't handle the life - sucking horror that has become sundays at this church.
God answered this vital question by sending His Son, Jesus,
as the fulfillment of the most violent religious writings, to show us that He had nothing to do
with the violence, but was instead dying along
with us in the midst of the violence, taking our sin and suffering upon Himself, bearing our guilt and
shame in His own being, all for the sake of those He loved.
I believe it is possible to be a feminist and pro-life,
as long
as that pro-life ethic does not come
with rhetoric that
shames, ignores, or vilifies women for the choices that they may make about a legal procedure.
In 2016,
as we consider the woman
with the unplanned pregnancy, the single mother or the woman who is at risk for having an unplanned pregnancy, we know from Jesus» example that condemnation and
shame is not the answer.
Persian still retained its predominance
as late
as the period of the last Mughal emperor, when Ghalib, one of the most brilliant Urdu poets, still prided himself on his Persian odes and looked upon his Urdu poetry
with shame.
This survey confirmed what I was seeing in the therapy room, but nonetheless made disturbing reading: 49.8 per cent reported mental health problems
as a result of their behaviour, such
as anxiety and depression; 65 per cent struggled
with low self - esteem; 70 per cent felt
shame and 19.4 per cent had experienced a serious desire to commit suicide.
For her,
as for many Christians who struggle
with addiction, overwhelming
shame and confusion only made things worse.
I see it more
as criticism of acting out the theology of first
shaming and chopping people down and then offering a program
with strings attached to bring them back up (and all the fear baggage that entails).
Those leaves They gathered, broad
as Amazonian targe, And
with what skill they had together sewed, To gird their waist — vain covering if to hide Their guilt and dreadful
shame; O how unlike To that first naked glory.
And
as I write this I weep
with tears of
shame that so many Christians are toxic and an offense to man and God and not the cross.
As an Orthodox Christian definitely in the ecumenical «left wing» of my church, I can not speak for all my co-confessionalists; but I can record my own
shame that so few Orthodox hierarchs have even recognized the remarkable gesture made by John Paul II in Ut Unum Sint (1995), in openly soliciting advice on how to understand his office (even indeed the limits of its jurisdiction), or been moved to respond
with anything like comparable Christian charity.
With his treachery against Laban just behind him, and the awful reminder of his shame against father and brother just ahead in the inevitable meeting with Esau, God falls upon him as a nocturnal spirit who, after a struggle that endures throughout the night, again gives — this time simply in a name — both promise and bless
With his treachery against Laban just behind him, and the awful reminder of his
shame against father and brother just ahead in the inevitable meeting
with Esau, God falls upon him as a nocturnal spirit who, after a struggle that endures throughout the night, again gives — this time simply in a name — both promise and bless
with Esau, God falls upon him
as a nocturnal spirit who, after a struggle that endures throughout the night, again gives — this time simply in a name — both promise and blessing:
But the tigers come at night,
With their voices soft
as thunder, As they tear your hope apart, And they turn your dream to sham
as thunder,
As they tear your hope apart, And they turn your dream to sham
As they tear your hope apart, And they turn your dream to
shame.
What does it matter when we die what is important is what we do
with our life now.The struggles people find themselves is because of living a sinful lifestyle you cant play
with fire and not get burnt there are consequences.Jesus wants to bring forgiveness and healing and remove the guilt and
shame that you are feeling.Ive have been there i was just
as guilty i do nt believe theres a big screen that replays our life if it is it, it will be about what we have done for God
as our sins are covered under the blood of Jesus.The judgement for christians is that we must give an account of what we did for Jesus while we were here did we make the most of opportunities given to tell others to reach out others
with his love.Mat 25:14 - 30 the Parable of the talents talks about judgement and for me it is all about what we do for Jesus the ones who are faithfull in the small things are set over much.The one who did nt use his talent that God gave him was punished for his lack of faith.So for those who are struggling
with sin and life Jesus loves you and has a plan for your life just trust him to help you and he will.To be fair its wont be easy you will have to make some hard choices but he promises to help you through its all about choosing him over choosing what we think best because he knows whats best for us.Its important the choice you make
as it will impact your life for eternity.brentnz
I partly agree
with your proposition that our sins at the Judgment will likely not be public so
as to
shame us, and that our sins were dealt
with at the cross — but only in the sense that our Salvation has been assured.
Kinda makes a poor judge of character, so if you are willing to debate freely in a conversation on life, the world, the pursuit of knowledge, and all the unknowns in the world
with an underage male, then I encourage you to continue the debate freely, but if you feel outmatched in a knowledge criteria and you wish to avoid
shame of not understanding enough or even not knowing enough (because they are different) then i will gently step aside
as not to harm your ego.
He shares his story in the book, explaining how he struggled
with living according to the Gospel
as a gay person, and how he experiences deep loneliness and
shame in nearly all of his relationships.
Wee shall finde that the God of IsraelI is among us, when tenn of us shall be able to resist a thousand of our enemies, when hee shall make us a prayse and glory, that men shall say of succeeding plantacions: the lord make it like that of New England: for wee must Consider that wee shall be
as a Citty upon a Hill, the eies of all people are uppon us: soe that if wee shall deale falsely
with our god in this worke wee have undertaken and soe cause him to withdrawe his present help from us, wee shall
shame the faces of many of gods worthy servants, and cause theire prayers to be turned into Cursses upon us till wee be consumed out of the good land whither wee are goeing: And to shutt upp this discourse
with that exhortacion of Moses, that faithfull servant of the Lord in his last farewell to Isreall, Deut.
But
as with many things done wrong in religion, applying
shame is often the quick and cheap way to address something without having to invest much effort or skill.
I had in my mind, in accordance
with the article, «subtle» abuses such
as control and
shaming.
Mike i like what you wrote about the relationship
with Christ its all about that.To me the gospel description is found in that verse it covers our fathers love that he has always loved us from the beginning when he created us it covers the reason why Jesus was sent to put things right to remove our sin guilt and
shame and to receive from him new life his life eternal but it is just
as real today and tomorrow and forever.brentnz
This unstable environment wreaks havoc on a child's sense of self, so the unpredictable and abusive atmosphere of her childhood left Nicole
with a
shame - proneness that she tried to keep hidden
as best she could.
And yet today, many people are silencing and
shaming others for addressing systemic issues or individual behavioral concerns
with religious leadership, calling for grace —
as if grace and accountability are mutually exclusive.
And,
as we will see in future installments of the series, Esther's favor
with the eunuchs will prove critical to her efforts in saving the Jews,
as God continues to use the powerless to
shame the powerful.
All my friends have left, It's a
shame,
as we were an active, supportive, faith - inspired community that went down the tubes
with the disrespect shown towards women and children, financial scandal, crcxkdowns of authority, etc. from a local to the highest levels.
As I watched the nurse going about her tasks, a strange mixture of shame and gratitude came upon me: shame that she was required to deal with my bodily detritus; gratitude that she was there and did not seem to regard this as an impositio
As I watched the nurse going about her tasks, a strange mixture of
shame and gratitude came upon me:
shame that she was required to deal
with my bodily detritus; gratitude that she was there and did not seem to regard this
as an impositio
as an imposition.
If sexual self - discipline is regarded primarily
as repression, then guilt and
shame may be identified primarily
with sexuality.
For the past 2 months I've been attending a class where we have been studying a book titled The Search for Significance by Robert S. McGee and I feel that it is a great book for anyone dealing
with issues such
as fear of rejection, failure,
shame and the fear of punishment and how those issues can be overcome when you apply the truth of Jesus» work on the cross to everyday life.
isn't that Evoulation in reverse?all other creatures on land have a thick skin (hair or wool) except humans!if God creates us he made us this way but provide us
with the brain to complete our creation so we becomae
as independent at other species using our heads; from riding a horse to a car to aplane to maybe self propelled engines?but why did we start covering ourselves: Are we really made
with a built in
shame or is it just the enviroment?
Yes, on a few occasions, her barbed ways afford wicked humor,
as during a monstrously affected «Ladies» Tea» that her aunt organizes so Scout can catch up
with old classmates: «Their makeup would have put an Egyptian draftsman to
shame,» she thinks, while failing to join their small talk and flinching at their only question, «well, how's new york?»
e ¯ bha ¯ h is even used
as synonymous
with «idol» or heathen deity, It is such a
shame that some have not come to Love the Lord.
(2:25) This lack of
shame, too, was natural,
as shamelessness is
with all the other animals.