I think it's awful that you have come away
with such negative feelings, and for that I apologize for whoever treated you or others that way.
Not exact matches
The most difficult blocks to
such maturing result from the transfer of
negative feelings derived from childhood experiences
with adults to one's relationship
with God.
One of the best definitions on forgiveness comes from — of all places — Wikipedia, where it's described as «the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in
feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of
negative emotions
such as vengefulness,
with an increased ability to wish the offender well.»
Such experiences can have
negative impacts on child's bonding
with the family and threaten his / her
feeling of security essential for his / her healthy development.
That can lead to jealousy and competition
with their child's caregivers, which can cause
negative consequences, she notes,
such as creating «distance between caregiver and parent or inadvertently place the child in a loyalty conflict where she
feels she is betraying her parent when she cares for another adult.»
If your child only expresses
negative emotions in your presence, or in specific areas
such as only at home, this is a sign that she
feels safest
with you.
75 % of girls
with low self - esteem that engage in
negative activities
such as eating disorders, cutting, bullying, smoking, or drinking when
feeling badly about themselves.
- Cope
with your child's
negative feelings,
such as frustration, anger, and disappointment - Express your strong
feelings without being hurtful - Engage your child's willing cooperation - Set firm limits and maintain goodwill - Use alternatives to punishment that promote self - discipline - Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise - Resolve family conflicts peacefully
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Perhaps we enjoy the
feelings and sensations associated
with emotional experiences regardless of the content; media might allow us to bask in the excitement without
negative consequences
such as pain and death.
Treatment was often associated
with negative feelings such as stress and frustration and, additionally, it was common that they were performed
with an apparent sense of a loss of control.
The longer it took women to drift off, the study found, the more likely both partners were to report
negative interactions
with their spouse —
such as
feeling ignored or criticized — the following day.
On a more
negative note, the film is designed and crafted in
such a way that you take one side,
with a certain perspective more prominently presented than the other, while the fact we're dealing
with an ensemble feature does mean there's a lack of emotionality attached, as
with so many characters to explore, we drift between them without ever
feeling as though we've truly got to the bottom of their respective character developments.
However a
feeling of familiarity
with the device and confidence in accessing
such content could be what contemporary adults in motion, from different backgrounds and
with different learning needs have in common, thus reducing any
negative perceptions towards technology usage.
Negative responses,
such as those of students who say they don't
feel safe or of teachers who say they aren't satisfied
with a headmaster's leadership, may flag a school for an in - person visit.
To put it bluntly, many research studies show people
with dogs as pets tend to have reduced
negative feelings such as loneliness or
feeling isolated.
To point out just a couple of things: — oceans warming slower (or cooling slower) than lands on long - time trends is absolutely normal, because water is more difficult both to warm or to cool (I mean, we require both a bigger heat flow and more time); at the contrary, I see as a non-sense theory (made by some serrist, but don't know who) that oceans are storing up heat, and that suddenly they will release
such heat as a positive feedback: or the water warms than no heat can be considered ad «stored» (we have no phase change inside oceans, so no latent heat) or oceans begin to release heat but in the same time they have to cool (because they are losing heat); so, I don't
feel strange that in last years land temperatures for some series (NCDC and GISS) can be heating up while oceans are slightly cooling, but I
feel strange that they are heating up so much to reverse global trend from slightly
negative / stable to slightly positive; but, in the end, all this is not an evidence that lands» warming is led by UHI (but, this effect, I would not exclude it from having a small part in temperature trends for some regional area, but just small); both because, as writtend, it is normal to have waters warming slower than lands, and because lands» temperatures are often measured in a not so precise way (despite they continue to give us a global uncertainity in TT values which is barely the instrumental's one)-- but, to point out, HadCRU and MSU of last years (I mean always 2002 - 2006) follow much better waters» temperatures trend; — metropolis and larger cities temperature trends actually show an increase in UHI effect, but I think the sites are few, and the covered area is very small worldwide, so the global effect is very poor (but it still can be sensible for regional effects); but I would not run out a small warming trend for airport measurements due mainly to three things: increasing jet planes traffic, enlarging airports (then more buildings and more asphalt — if you follow motor sports, or simply live in a town / city, you will know how easy they get very warmer than air during day, and how much it can slow night - time cooling) and overall having airports nearer to cities (if not becoming an area inside the city after some decade of hurban growth, e.g. Milan - Linate); — I found no point about UHI in towns and villages; you will tell me they are not large cities; but, in comparison
with 20-40-60 years ago when they were «countryside», many small towns and villages have become part of larger hurban areas (at least in Europe and Asia) so examining just larger cities would not be enough in my opinion to get a full view of UHI effect (still remembering that it has a small global effect: we can say many matters are due to UHI instead of GW, maybe even that a small part of measured GW is due to UHI, and that GW measurements are not so precise to make us able to make good analisyses and predictions, but not that GW is due to UHI).
However in the comfort of our modern homes, in the absence of
such predators
with protection designed into our homes, cars and parenting styles — what this fear has adapted to do is respond to modern day stresses, which can trigger past
negative feelings of shame, hurt or fear.
In either situation, having positive interactions
with children, involving them in pro-social activities
such as sports and giving the child a safe space to share her
feelings can help minimize the
negative effects of both divorce and parents who engage in emotionally abusive dynamics.
Caregiver - focused groups were rated as providing skills
such as information and support that reduced the
negative appraisal of caregiving, decreased uncertainty and lessened hopelessness, while also teaching skills to cope
with the stresses of caregiving.66 This supports suggestions that
such groups might give caregivers the chance to openly interact
with other caregivers in the absence of their care recipients.57 Moreover, in a systematic review of psychosocial interventions, group based or otherwise, caregivers listed the most useful aspect of interventions as regular interactions
with a professional, providing the chance to openly communicate issues
with them, and as a time to talk about
feelings and questions related to cancer.13, 66
Given what you describe about your ex's behavior, it is possible that she terminated the relationship because of having an avoidant attachment style, meaning that she is fearful about entering and becoming too close to others.1 People
with avoidant attachment styles are more likely than people
with other styles to end relationships when they start getting too intimate2 and to use indirect strategies to do so,
such as avoiding direct communication about the real problems that are leading to the break - up.3 In other words, she may have been holding back
negative feelings.
Infidelity — cheating, being unfaithful, or what researchers would describe as «couple members» violations of relationship norms regarding exclusivity» — clearly can cause
negative emotions
such as
feelings of betrayal, hurt, and jealousy.1
With spring break (at American colleges and universities) just around the corner, we thought it would be a good time to discuss how relationship commitment affects the likelihood of infidelity when partners are geographically separated and tempted by the fruit of another.
People who are high in sexual communal strength — those who are motivated to meet their partner's sexual needs without the expectation of immediate reciprocation — were less concerned
with the
negatives of having sex —
such as
feeling tired the next day.
If children are involved, they may experience
negative effects
such as denial,
feelings of abandonment, anger, blame, guilt, preoccupation
with reconciliation, and acting out.
I specialize in helping clients overcome the
negative effects of past unresolved trauma, including physical, sexual and emotional abuse or neglect or growing up in families
with problems
such as alcoholism, substance abuse or current life traumas or experiences that impact a person's ability to
feel safe and connected.
The limited comparison possible between the first and second GUS birth cohorts suggested a decrease in the proportion of parents
with negative feelings about parenting,
such as incompetence, resentment, impatience and irritation.
Mindfulness is not a uni-dimensional construct; it consists of several behavioral tendencies which include observing (attending to internal and external stimuli,
such as emotions, sights, or sounds), describing (having the ability to label, define, and express thoughts toward present - moment experiences), acting
with awareness (focusing attention on only one thing in the present - moment, whether this is a
feeling, a sight, a sound, or any other internal or external cue), and withholding judgment (abstaining from evaluating the present moment, particularly in a
negative fashion).
Parents experiencing high levels of stress parenting their child, as well as parents reporting
negative feelings such as incompetence or annoyance, were less likely to read or sing
with the child, and more likely to let the child watch TV for 2 hours or more daily.
I am eclectic in my approach to counseling, drawing upon mainly humanistic principles in therapy; for example, regarding you
with the utmost respect, focusing on your goals, and seeing you as your own expert; using beliefs from a psychodynamic approach,
such as the importance of childhood and past relationship patterns on present relationships; utilizing Buddhist approaches,
such as mindfulness and meditation; and finally using cognitive behavioral interventions,
such as changing
negative thought patterns and realizing the connection between thoughts,
feelings and behaviors.»
Indeed, research on parent — child co-rumination has shown that mothers» tendency to dwell on
negative feelings with their children is positively related to children's internalizing characteristics
such as anxiety and sadness (Calmes and Roberts 2008; Grimbos et al. 2013; Waller and Rose 2010).
The Incope (Bodenmann, 2000) is a questionnaire (5 - point scale)
with 23 items (α = 0.80) developed on the basis of the COPE (Carver, Scheier, & Weintraub, 1989) measuring the following subscales
such as active problem - solving («I attempt to tackle and solve the problem»), positive self - verbalization («I persuade myself that I will make it»), rumination («I ruminate for a long time and keep on thinking about the occurrence»), passivity / evasion («I wait until things change on their own, even if I might be able to do something»),
negative emotional expression («I express my
feelings without considering what this means for others»), substance use («I consume something that calms me down (cigarettes, alcohol, sweets, tranquiliser»)(α = 0.52 to α = 0.80).
First, we expect cognitive empathy to be associated
with greater social support,
such that when the support provider takes the perspective of the support seeker and more accurately infers his / her thoughts and
feelings, the provider will offer higher levels of positive support (i.e., more emotional and instrumental support), but lower levels of
negative support to their support - seeking partner (Hypothesis 1).
Financial stress is often associated
with negative adolescent outcome,
such as problem behavior,
feelings of depression and anxiety.
The user turns to the Internet to cope
with negative feelings such as guilt, anxiety or depression.