Toller's wife left him after their son was killed during his military service, and he has been living
with despair for so long it's no longer clear, even to him, whether he's in a dark night of the soul or has passed through to the sickness unto death.
We are now going to have to live
with this despair for the rest of our lives, and if I live to be 100 I don't think a single day will pass by without my thinking that we inadvertently killed one of the dogs that we loved so deeply.
Not exact matches
For those of us who feel our inbox is beyond all help (aka limping around the track
with hundreds of thousands of emails), don't
despair.
I also fought my loneliness and personal
despair by keeping a journal and by relying on my new friendships
for comfort amidst the frustrations of dealing
with new daily struggles.
When you're done feeling sorry
for yourself and wallowing in your
despair, you'll have something in common
with the rest of humankind.
When the VCs learned about the findings, the researchers write in the HBR article, «the VCs reacted
with a mixture of emotions:
despair for being involved in creating bias, denial of being part of it, becoming upset
with the facts, and feeling relief about the fact that gender bias was finally becoming transparent.»
Between the peaks of success, valleys of
despair, nights
with lost sleep, and uncertainty, it's no wonder entrepreneurship isn't
for everyone.
The falling prices have been serious enough to prompt online posts
with suicide hotlines
for virtual currency investors in
despair.
These statistics depict an extent of deprivation, a degree of misery, a sense of hopelessness and
despair, a fundamental alienation that is difficult
for that great majority of Americans who lack direct experience
with this social stratum to comprehend.
Notice that
for Rubenstein the death of God can truly be greeted only
with despair, but this is a
despair that drives us to nothingness as our ultimate situation.
For example, when she first realised that she was dying of TB she responded to this illness not
with despair but
with joy; joy because she recognised it as the «call of the Beloved» to come and be
with her in heaven.
Moral and ethical dilemmas become opportunities
for the church to express its care by its willingness to sit
with people in the midst of turmoil and
despair.
But also, there's this: when I was sad, when I had real legitimate reasons
for grief or
despair or anger or any emotion that was perceived as negative or dark, I had nowhere to go
with it.
For instance, the congregation might pray for anonymous victims of domestic violence, for those trying to make difficult decisions in their life, for family members who are disagreeing with one another, and for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or despair of othe
For instance, the congregation might pray
for anonymous victims of domestic violence, for those trying to make difficult decisions in their life, for family members who are disagreeing with one another, and for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or despair of othe
for anonymous victims of domestic violence,
for those trying to make difficult decisions in their life, for family members who are disagreeing with one another, and for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or despair of othe
for those trying to make difficult decisions in their life,
for family members who are disagreeing with one another, and for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or despair of othe
for family members who are disagreeing
with one another, and
for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or despair of othe
for those members of the congregation touched by the hurt or
despair of others.
The Psalm does not question the relationship of David and Mount Zion to all Israel3 In its moods of deepest
despair, the Old Testament story finds hope
for the future of all Israel in the certainty that God would realize his purpose in the David - Zion covenant
with the re-establishment of that rule in some form.
Replacing «
for God so loved the world»
with «
for God so hated the world» (which I believe Calvinism requires) is so disorienting to me, so dark and frightening and hopeless, that I fear it would lead me to
despair.
I wasn't raised in a Christian home, but God revealed himself to through his creation and then his word, and then when I believed in him, he gave me an awsome life and a releationship
with him and many others that believe as I do
for we love one another and try to help others find the truth that has hope not
despair.
I hurried back to my hole, and, rage giving place to
despair, sought
for the potion that was to procure abortion, and swallowed it,
with a wish that it might destroy me, at the same time that it stopped the sensations of new - born life, which I felt
with indescribable emotion.
I never settled into a regular church and soon I was back
with the world... the drinking, the sex, the smoking... part of me still longed
for Jesus as I felt the
despair that comes
with living in sin.
And to me their songs about society and war and life and
despair show our need
for reconciliation
with our Creator.
Modern man has learned to be wholly concerned
with his own feelings, and even
despair at their unreality will not instruct him in a better way — «
for despair is also an interesting feeling.»
With such a goal no one competes with others for a place in the conversation, nor rudely interrupts, nor despairs of «getting a word in edgewise.&ra
With such a goal no one competes
with others for a place in the conversation, nor rudely interrupts, nor despairs of «getting a word in edgewise.&ra
with others
for a place in the conversation, nor rudely interrupts, nor
despairs of «getting a word in edgewise.»
How far complete clarity about oneself, as to whether one is in
despair, may be united
with being in
despair, where this knowledge and self - knowledge might not avail precisely to tear a man out of his
despair, to make him so terrified about himself that he would cease to be in
despair — these questions we shall not decide here, we shall not even attempt to do so, since in the sequel we shall find a place
for this whole investigation.
Resignation regarded as
despair is essentially different from the form, «in
despair at not willing to be oneself,»
for it wills desperately to be itself —
with exception, however, of one particular,
with respect to which it wills despairingly not to be itself.)
The condition requisite
for healing it always this about - face, and from a purely philosophical point of view it might be a subtle question whether it is possible
for one to be in
despair with full consciousness of what it is about which one
despairs.)
For so it is
with men in this world: first a man sins from frailty and weakness; and then — yes, then perhaps he learns to flee to God and to be helped by faith which saves from all sin; but of this we are not talking here — then he
despairs over his weakness and becomes, either a Pharisee who in
despair manages to attain a certain legal righteousness, or he
despairs and plunges again into sin.
The believer possesses the eternally certain antidote to
despair, viz, possibility;
for with God all things are possible every instant.
Rather than trading shot
for shot, rage
for rage,
despair for despair, I will step out of that cycle of death and walk straight out onto the water,
with my eyes on Jesus, he is making a path in the wilderness.
Already a movement is under way to improve end - of - life care by educating health - care providers to respond better to the needs of dying patients, by creating new care settings or improving existing ones, by seeking changes in methods of paying
for appropriate care, by educating the public through conferences, town meetings, television programming, and even Web sites (see www.careproject.net), by providing adequate relief of pain, by withholding or withdrawing treatments that only prolong dying, by keeping company
with those who are lonely, and by being a resource of meaning and hope
for those tempted to
despair.
which would run through his mind a hundred times together, until one day out of breath
with retorting, «I will not, I will not,» he impulsively said, «Let him go if he will,» and this loss of the battle kept him in
despair for over a year.
If in the ruins of Rome, St. Augustine dreamed of a civilisation that should be the City of God on earth, and penned, even while weighted
with despair and expectation of the end of the world, the noble outline of the Christian order which inspired so much of mediaeval thought, how much more reason have we today,
with so much greater resources, to expect
for our civilisation a resurrection out of our decay.
For the society is facing not only a new age of information, but also a new technological era which brings
with it a challenge to all of the historical religions, and which can lead either to humankind «s next integrative steps toward new religious insights and meaning, or to a collapse of religious development and the emergence of a period of anarchy and
despair.
How many times, in reading the liturgy
for the Holy Communion, I have felt both exultation and
despair at the moment of the Sanctus: «Therefore
with Angels and Archangels, and
with all the company of heaven, we laud and magnify Thy glorious Name; evermore praising Thee, and saying: Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord God of Saboath...» Exalted because, in this language, this place and time and company of momentary lives are interpreted and blessed within the scope of an eternal action of God, released from the tyranny of death and what Dylan Thomas has so movingly alluded to when he laments that
Just when one is sodden
with despair over the possibility of making alive the massive biblical symbol of fire,
for instance --
The parables disclose
with what pleasure and tolerance he surveyed the broad scene of human activity: the merchant seeking pearls; the farmer sowing his fields; the real - estate man trying to buy a piece of land in which he had secret reason to believe a treasure lay buried; the dishonest secretary, who had been given notice, making friends against the evil day among his employer's debtors by reducing their obligations; the five young women sleeping
with lamps burning while the bridegroom tarried and unable to attend the marriage because their sisters who had had foresight enough to bring additional oil refused to lend them any; the rich man whose guests
for dinner all made excuses; the man comfortably in bed
with his children who gets up at midnight to help his importunate neighbor only because he
despairs of getting rid of him otherwise; the king who is out to capture a city; the man who built his house upon the sand and lost it in the first storm of wind and rain; the queer employer who pays all of his men the same wage whether they have worked the whole day or a single hour; the great lord who going to a distant land entrusts his property to his three servants and judges them by the success of their investments when he returns; the shepherd whose sheep falls into a ditch; the woman
with ten pieces of silver who, losing one, lights the candle and sweeps diligently till she finds it, and makes the finding of it the occasion of a celebration in which all of her neighbors are invited to share — and how long such a list might be!
Paul's whole conception of man — his creation in God's own image
with the law of God written in his heart, his losing battle
with a demonic enemy, the shameful captivity in which he is now held and the doom of death which awaits him — this whole conception, as well as the
despair of one who awakes to the realities
for which the conception stands, is expressed in the words
with which Paul ends what we know as the seventh chapter of Romans:
But faith brings forgiveness
for guilt, hope
for despair, communion
with God instead of isolation, help
for temptation, and life through death.29 The new being belongs to the future; the old being belongs to the past.
Psalms of
despair usually end
with praise, he said, so praise is the only fitting prayer
for the true believer.
(I avoid referring to God as He, because God, containing all things, is so much more than male and / or female) I, too, called out from the depth of
despair and was surprised to immediately receive an answer, and an instruction, tailor made
for me, which I won't detail here; though I'd love to sit down
with all of you and buy a round of beer, kosher wine, juice or whatever and chat some more.
«We look back knowing that our prayers are needed
with fresh urgency, as we cry them out to a God who shares deeply in the pain, anxiety, suffering and
despair of all those persecuted
for their beliefs.»
Nor should we be too harsh
with the cynical or the despairing; there certainly is sufficient reason
for despair.
But,
for now, we don't have to know exactly why people are gay to put a stop to harmful practices that have left Justin, and so many like him,
with no other option but
despair.
A few of the obvious drives that pack us off, daily or weekly or episodically or,
for some, in hope, permanently, are fear or even terror in the particular given set of circumstances; the sheer discouragement and exhaustion of facing questions without answer; profound disillusionment — it takes many forms —
with the pertinent, prevailing system or systems; deep and bitter contempt
for one's own society, bred of the abysmal failure to attain in consistent practice even a semblance of the justice professed and acclaimed;
despair — so it was
with the college generation of the late sixties — over the formidable obduracy of a political establishment in going its merciless way quite apparently deaf to the cries of anguish of its empathetic and real victims, victims by the tens of millions here and around the world.
For Chagall, images of hope tinged
with despair, of joyous celebration in the face of death, remained in the foreground of his essentially Jewish religious imagination.
In the first case he wailed
with such Dantesque
despair when I extracted the rattle from his mouth that I was convinced
for a moment that he had knocked his teeth out.
For there God's goodness is pictured in such terms of mercy and compassion that one sometimes
despairs of reconciling such grace
with the world's hideous evils and mankind's frightful sufferings.
The men I work
with have gone through every kind of anger, resentment, and
despair, but most have come to feel profound gratitude
for their punishment.
Jews, both pious and secular, who want to find some way to live at peace
with Palestinians
despair over the zealotry of the Gush Emunim, who believe God has given their people land on which Palestinians have also dwelt
for generations.
In Narnia, Edmund falls so far short of goodness that he finally realizes,
with a shock of
despair, his need
for forgiveness.
For when hate, and anger, and revenge, and despondency, and melancholy, and despair, and fear of the future, and reliance on the world, and trust in oneself, and pride that infuses itself even into sympathy, and envy that even mingles itself with friendship, and that inclination that may have changed but not for the better: when these dwell m a man — when was it without the deceptive excuse of ignoran
For when hate, and anger, and revenge, and despondency, and melancholy, and
despair, and fear of the future, and reliance on the world, and trust in oneself, and pride that infuses itself even into sympathy, and envy that even mingles itself
with friendship, and that inclination that may have changed but not
for the better: when these dwell m a man — when was it without the deceptive excuse of ignoran
for the better: when these dwell m a man — when was it without the deceptive excuse of ignorance?