The trick to getting out of this prison of control is to help your partner get in touch
with the underlying feelings of shame and vulnerability that fuel their desire to be right or dominant.
Instead of dealing
with these underlying feelings of inadequacy, the jealousy turns into little digs and insults when they are together.
Rewards and punishment don't usually stop the hitting, because they don't help kids
with the underlying feelings, or teach them a better way to solve the problem that caused the hitting.
Not exact matches
But you came in here
with an
underlying assumption that anybody that believes differently than you (at least on the topic of gay Christians, though I suspect it would apply more broadly) is just ignoring and or twisting scripture to appease what «
feels good» to them.
The «envelope» in which we deliver guidance to our children provides the
underlying degree of emotional connection and
feeling that can become associated
with physical nourishment and activity.
Finally, Mr. Chairman, I recall your address in Boston some years ago stating that companies should not
feel obligated to «give back» to the community and any initiatives should be pursued
with an
underlying intention of making money for investors.
There are some
underlying illnesses when your baby is sweating more often than normal and she's
feeling exceedingly uncomfortable
with her sweating as well.
I know we all may
feel that nothing new can be said on the latter subject, but I found Ambinder's piece to be a great synthesis of the many complex strands that
underlie the obesity epidemic, along
with insightful commentary.
A bigger fail is of course that the
underlying issue (if you use brains instead of
feelings) was the captive market coupled
with high barrier of entry (want to open a gay bar?
«May we not
feel,» he wrote, «that in the virus, in their merging
with the cellular genome and reemerging from them, we observe the units and process which, in the course of evolution, have created the successful genetic patterns that
underlie all living cells?»
The grafts that best approximate the look and
feel of a face are «full - thickness» grafts, which involve harvesting the outer (epidermal) layer of skin along
with the
underlying (dermal) layers from elsewhere on the body.
Professor Abraham said: «Patients
with the remede ® system
feel better, they are less symptomatic, their quality of life is improved, and the
underlying mechanisms that lead to heart failure progression such as autonomic imbalance are improved.»
Physicians need to help patients
feel comfortable
with treatment decisions within their
underlying nature and values.
And it's written as a
feel - good story
with an inspirational take - home message: People who work off the beaten track, in both the geographic and biological sense, often make dramatic contributions to the «remarkable ecosystem
underlying scientific discovery,» he notes.
I
feel it is important to note that all of the topical remedies in the world didn't help us until we addressed the
underlying problem, specifically: diet and lifestyle factors that were causing / contributing to the eczema to begin
with.
Compulsive behaviors are generally techniques we develop to deal
with feelings or
underlying insecurities.
This time I
felt better about becoming a mom, but I still had
underlying fears about truly being able to make the impact in the world that I desired to make
with this huge, impending life change.
TRUTH: Functional Medicine doctors always strive to FIND the
underlying cause of your health problem, and then FIX the cause
with natural treatments, so you can
feel normal again.
As such, taking salt would raise the blood pressure and make one
feel somewhat better, though the
underlying problem of adrenal insufficiency is what really has to be dealt
with.
This bride so effortlessly wove something blue into her bridal look,
with a sheer dusky - blue floral embroidered overlay cascading around a nude
underlay for a soft and romantic
feel designed by Emily Riggs.
Two siblings»
underlying resentment for one another is put to the test by a new love interest in My Blind Brother, a rom - com that often
feels like it's cutting
with a blunt edge.
At the time, Guffman
felt like something new, a character - based comedy
with an
underlying sense of the real anxiety behind delusional behavior (it seemed close to the best novels of Dawn Powell).
I'll go
with innocent, at least on first viewing, because while «Kung Fu Panda» is certainly very safe, its
underlying sweetness
feels more genuine than not.
Even though the film largely plays up absurdity, the surprising aspect about it is that there is an
underlying sympathy to Beth that makes it
feel like a bit of a tragic romance as she tries valiantly to continue to live a normal life, but must come to grips
with the nature of what she has become.
But like its predecessor, this film never
feels woolly: it's filled
with entertaining CGI set - pieces and has an admirable
underlying message about the importance of community spirit.
We can extend or eliminate contracts
with organizations like Teach for America, but that won't fix the
underlying fact that many young educators simply don't
feel that the school culture where the work is one where they can be successful.
Sure, an S - Class is likely a better car to live
with everyday over the long run due to its depth of engineering and plethora of technology, but if I wrote the check for the Benz, I'd have an
underlying feeling that the Jaguar would have been the much more exciting and emotional experience.
While I understand the ambivalence, frustration and / or outright anger some librarians must
feel over the situation — it kind of goes hand - in - hand working
with Amazon — there's an unfortunate combination at play here that seems to be an
underlying truth of the digital age: «Be careful what you wish for,» and, «If you get in bed
with the devil, sooner or later...»
, I
felt it was a charming, easy read, but
with some
underlying pearls of wisdom.
One of the constant
underlying threads in the book was the desperate need the characters
feel to adhere to a lengthy and demanding list of rules spelled out in their religious doctrine to the point that the tenets of their faith interfere
with their ability to live.
I mean, do we really have to play this game, where because I'm who I am and you're who you are, we pretend that the word «fuck» doesn't exist, and while we're at it, that the action that
underlies the word doesn't exist, and I just puke up a bunch of junk about how some teacher changed my life by teaching me how Shakespeare was actually the world's first rapper, or about the time I was doing community service
with a bunch of homeless teenagers dying of cancer or something and
felt the deep call of selfless action, or else I pull out all the stops and give you the play - by - play sob story of what happened to my dad, or some other terrible heartbreak of a thing that makes you
feel so bummed out you figure, what the hell, we've got quotas after all, and this kid's gotten screwed over enough, so you give me the big old stamp of approval and a fat envelope in the mail come April?
Sure, trading margin for growth can be a net plus, but this
feels familiar — far too often it turns out management was obsessed
with revenues and scale, while the
underlying business was really sucking wind.
I must agree that this old cocker spaniel had
underlying health problems - and if she needed to be muzzled than obviously she was
feeling alot of anxiety to begin
with -LCB- dogs become anxious because they're being left by thier owners, taken away by strange people that they do nt know, and placed in a loud, stressful enviroment
with other barking dogs.
Most experienced rabbit veterinarians
feel that complete surgical removal of the abscess, along
with treatment of the
underlying cause, gives the rabbit the best chance for a complete cure.
Sometimes stones can be
felt in the bladder on physical exam.Some cats will develop cystitis
with no apparent
underlying cause.
Without knowing more about her, it is difficult for me to comment on what might be going on
with her, but typically, we need to treat the
underlying problem that is causing her to
feel like not eating.
Also,
with many pets, the
underlying causes can not be identified, and it is
felt that there is a genetic component in most of these cases.
While the game does inherently
feel like Doom,
with the gratuitous amounts of violence and the fast paced game play, there is something more in the
underlying feeling to the game.
The delicate, transparent pistols evoke a similar
feel: at once disarming and humorous, but
with a threat of
underlying violence.
With a witty approach to contemporary computation, Salavon's reductive methods reveal
underlying currents — and absurdities — creating a body of work that
feels like a wild ride through the collective digital consciousness.
Although the end result still has many complicated elements to it, I
felt that the
underlying organization was based on a simple structure, and that helped to uncover an order
with overall value and color.
Scientists already
feel that the second part of the IPCC report, which addresses the consequences of global warming, is not as sound as the first part, which deals
with the
underlying physical factors contributing to climate change.
Now, the case for replacing the bulk of the existing subsidies and regulations addressing greenhouse gas emissions
with a carbon tax — our preferred policy response to climate change — is quite strong regardless of how one
feels about the
underlying science.
Sam Glover: I
feel like what I'm hearing
underlying what you're saying is that working
with lawyers is actually a pain in the ass for financial advisors.
On the issue of confidentiality, while the Court was mindful of the important reasons
underlying the principle of open court, it
felt that the privacy interests of the applicant (given the sensitive nature of the proceedings and the evidence) outweighed the interests of the public, and
felt that the issuance of written reasons (
with identities concealed) would satisfy any public need.
Or, you might
feel more comfortable
with a personal umbrella policy, a separate policy that kicks in once the liability limits on your
underlying homeowners insurance have been exhausted.
There is, however, a deeper
underlying reason why Mr. Dimon and lawmakers often
feel a need to separate Bitcoin from Blockchain technology, and it has to do
with secrecy.
It's important that the target contact
feels no pressure to help
with the job search, even though that might be the job seeker's
underlying objective.
Nancy facilitates couples to get in touch
with what
underlies their reactions, so that vulnerable
feelings can be expressed in a way that gets an attuned response from their partner.
In our psychotherapeutic relationship, I will work
with you to better understand present dynamics and
underlying feelings, as well as explore past relationships and patterns that you carry
with you.