As I have seen a lot of
women nursing in public in different countries through the years, I noticed that there are 3 main types of women who breastfeed in public:
Not exact matches
If a
woman is uncomfortable
nursing her child
in public the church should find a way to accommodate her.
So I just don't get the «too much pressure to breastfeed» when all around me are images of bottles, ads for formula telling me a happy feeding makes a happy mom, bottlefeeding moms, moms and doctors and
nurses telling new moms that formula is «just as good» and «not to feel guilty»,
women getting «the look» for
nursing in public, or feeling weird about doing it (I sure did)-- to me, any pressure out there is NOT to breastfeed, or do it as little as possible (not if it's not immediately easy or you don't love every minute, not past 6 mos, not
in public, not around male relatives and friends, not around children, not if you ever want to go out alone sometime...)
It saddens me that some of the most confident
women I know have felt very self - conscious
nursing in public, particularly on the first few occasions, concerned about the reaction from their friends, the
public, and business owners alike.
As
in many states, the Mississippi measure replaced an antiquated law that allowed
women to be arrested for indecent exposure or disorderly conduct for
nursing in public.
While breast - feeding
in public is widely accepted
in many cultures, some Americans are uncomfortable or offended when a
woman reveals even a portion of her breast to
nurse a child.
I'm a proponent of
women being able to
nurse whenever and wherever they need to, but I still felt a little shy when I
nursed my baby
in public, especially since she never — not even at the beginning — tolerated a cover.
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Women who aren't comfortable with their breasts, their bodies and the inevitable need to breast - feed
in public will have a hard time
nursing their babies.
I'm all for
women's right to breastfeed openly
in public without being relegated to hiding
in a bathroom stall or even behind a
nursing cover if they don't want to, but all the belief
in that right considered, it's still a little odd the first few (OK, all the) times you bust out a boob at a restaurant table.
Holding that view, it was particularly disturbing to me to be attacked by another
woman in Austin for
nursing one of my sweet angels
in public.
Also if I were to think about it, I want to be an example for moms who might be a bit hesitant to
nurse in public, I want it too seem normal and that lots of
women do it.
Women should be free to
nurse in public.
I do think that if it becomes more common and more accepted for
women to
nurse in public, then perhaps more
women will feel comfortable doing so.
I don't have a problem with lactation rooms as long as
women are not told that they must use them and as long as enough
women keep
nursing in public to help normalize it and help combat the images of sexual breasts with images of nourishing breasts.
Public Eye Award 2005: Overwhelming winner of the «People's Choice» award for «for its practice of marketing baby food and formula
in the developing world by encouraging
women to use their products instead of
nursing their children.»
I don't think that
women should have to hole themselves up
in a bathroom stall — how gross, especially a
public bathroom — or some other dungeon to feed her
nursing child.
Another major objection to
women breastfeeding
in public is the perception that feeding a baby a bottle is just as good as the nutrition a baby gets while
nursing.
So, if busybodies pop up with ridiculous questions like, «Well, if
women can just
nurse in public, what's next?
I've been
in public and had
women I've never met ask me to block the view from other people while they
nurse.
What exactly are the laws that protect a
woman's right to
nurse in public?
I think
women are becoming more comfortable
in telling others that they are still
nursing older babies so hopefully there will be a shift
in attitudes but I have recently «lost» a few facebook followers after posting a status regarding full - term breastfeeding (I think they were most likely from a giveaway I did ages ago and not on the same page re: bf etc) Apart from that, I love telling Mums on the ward (I'm a bf peer supporter) I'm still feeding as it opens their mind to that possibility and I think I look pretty normal so it mostly doesn't freak them out My son is far too busy to
nurse out and about and prefers juice so we've not
nursed in public (apart from support group) since he was 18 mths and that was as I had a blocked duct!
That means no
nurses pushing formula, lactation support
in the hospital, support for moms
in the workplace, cultural norms that allow
women to breastfeed
in public places without being shamed, and more support among
women for dealing with the challenges.
Miffed by a societal norm that perpetuates the idea that
women who
nurse their babies should do so
in hiding, I've thought of a few things you actually don't have to do when breastfeeding
in public.
«it gives the impression that every
nursing mother is an attention - seeking lunatic» It also works against
women who would like to see more paid maternity / parental leave or flex time for working because it gives the idea that THIS is what
women are going to do with that extra paid time, show up topless to a
public event and sit on the floor
nursing in front of a formula company's table.
I'm a real proponent of
nursing in public (I think the more people see
women nursing their babies out
in public the more normal it will become and the less stressful it will be for
women who need to feed their babies while they're outside) but I try to do it as discreetly as possible.
Being shirtless
in public is unusual even for a
nursing woman.
No, the
woman in the article was focusing on making a statement about
public nursing and how society needs to support it.
Our mission is to elevate the
nursing mother to a place
in society where she receives all the necessary support to successfully
nurse a child, where scientific evidence overrides marketing influences, and a
woman does not fear breastfeeding
in public.
If you fall into the category of
women who want to breastfeed
in public but would rather not display your boobs for all to see, then a great
nursing cover is your secret weapon.
It's not that she became more comfortable
nursing on a bench
in a shopping mall or
in a restaurant booth, she emphasizes, it's that she made herself comfortable: «It's not easy to
nurse in public except for
women who make it acceptable to themselves.
The MEPs voting for the Resolution were heeding the expert opinions of medical and
public health bodies from across Europe, US, Asia and Latin America and from UN bodies, including WHO, UNICEF, Save the Children, the UK Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, the Standing Committee of European Doctors (CPME), the European Midwives Association, Eurochild, Association of European Cancer Leagues, the European Federation of the Association of Dieticians (EFAD), the European Federation of Nurses Associations (EFN), COFACE (the Confederation of Family Organisations in the European Union), EPHA (the European Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the Baby Feeding Law Group and the International Baby Food Action N
public health bodies from across Europe, US, Asia and Latin America and from UN bodies, including WHO, UNICEF, Save the Children, the UK Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, the Standing Committee of European Doctors (CPME), the European Midwives Association, Eurochild, Association of European Cancer Leagues, the European Federation of the Association of Dieticians (EFAD), the European Federation of
Nurses Associations (EFN), COFACE (the Confederation of Family Organisations
in the European Union), EPHA (the European
Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the Baby Feeding Law Group and the International Baby Food Action N
Public Health Association) BEUC (the European Consumers Association), the German Midwives Association, the California
Women Infants and Children Association, Sustain's Childrens Food Campaign, the National Childbirth Trust, the Baby Feeding Law Group and the International Baby Food Action Network
Just a fun fact, from a former Cast Member — Disney Cast Members are instructed specifically
in training about the importance of
nursing in public and that it is 100 % legal and acceptable for
women to do so anywhere
in the parks or property.
I don't have a problem with
women nursing their babies
in public in a discreet way.
Where and when I grew up
women did NOT
nurse in public.
Yes, the very few times when I have noticed someone looking disgusted / upset with me
nursing my child
in public, it was an older
woman.
Many
women are not comfortable
nursing in public, and it is important that they have more comfortable options than bathroom floors.
Navon ended her complaint with this statement: «Imagine — I am sitting and
nursing a baby only days old, and two
women are standing
in front of me discussing my «great hutzpah
in nursing a baby
in a
public place.»»
My gut reaction is that it does run the risk of being the place where
women are «sent» to
nurse and that we shouldn't need rooms like this, but I also understand that many
women just aren't comfortable
nursing in public and if there are spaces set aside for them I'm all for it.
This is impressive considering not just the mainstream US's reaction to
nursing in public, but also because moms
in other countries feel more embarrassed overall than US
women do.
Plus, whether you
nurse in front of your own kids or not shapes what they think about seeing
women breastfeed
in public, so I'd say the problems start at home on this one.
This year as we follow the 1993 theme, «Mother - Friendly Workplace Initiative,» which sadly is still a struggle many
women face today, we spread the word and encourage employers and the general
public to stop criticizing
women for
nursing in public but instead embrace the healthy and natural process of breastfeeding.
It's therefore important for
women to seek and offer each other support
in public nursing.
Legislation
in most states gives
women the right to
nurse in public.
Being a large - breasted
woman (lucky me... grrrr), I always felt extremely too self - conscious to breast feed
in public, and too scared to throw a blanket over me because I always wanted to make sure there was adequate air pocket for my daughters to breath (these dang boobs are no joke) That being said, I always escaped to either a
nursing room (which all too often don't exist
in public places), or would retreat to my car and feed them.
It's okay for
women to be exposing themselves
in advertising, on TV,
in magazines, music shows and videos, but it's not okay to
nurse your baby and show a breast
in public.
In 2005, Barbara Walters spoke on The View about her discomfort with nursing in public and particularly called out an incident on an airplane where a woman nursed her baby next to Ms. Walter
In 2005, Barbara Walters spoke on The View about her discomfort with
nursing in public and particularly called out an incident on an airplane where a woman nursed her baby next to Ms. Walter
in public and particularly called out an incident on an airplane where a
woman nursed her baby next to Ms. Walters.
Even though every U.S. state has laws protecting a
woman's right to
nurse anywhere she is legally permitted to be (every state except Idaho so, you know, get your shit together, Idaho), countless
women have stories about being shamed for feeding their baby
in public.
While breastfeeding rates
in the U.S. are on the rise, most
women are unable to reach their breastfeeding goals, and I can't help but hypothesize that keeping
nursing out of the
public eye (and therefore removed from general
public consciousness) has a lot to do with that.
I don't see many other
women nursing their toddlers
in public.
While there are laws which protect breastfeeding mothers from legal ramifications should she expose her breast
in public to
nurse,
women often still have to fight charges or discrimination.