Trying to make the other party look bad may hurt
them worse than the divorce.
Given how disruptive divorce can be, and given our longer lifespans, shouldn't we rethink our conviction that cheating is
worse than divorce?
Not exact matches
«Nothing would be
worse than to get into a relationship about which we know that it will end in a dirty
divorce,» he said.
To accept gay marriage as a genuine expression of marriage — and to treat it as such in the parish office, even if we could then keep it out of the parish church — would be vastly more destructive
than accepting
divorce (which has been
bad).
People who go through a
divorce are not
worse or less spiritual
than any of us.
It is so
bad, that a recent study analyzing children of
divorce over a 50 year period by Stanford University demonstrates that children of
divorce actually live five years shorter lives
than children raised in intact two - parent married families.
And women get called out for initiating
divorce more
than men; maybe we sense men don't fully buy into «in sickness... for
worse» thing.
The implication is that staying with a cheater, as Hillary has, is
worse than if she
divorced him — even though many of us are still conflicted about
divorce.
The
Bad News about
Divorce and Children Is
Worse than We Thought, but the Good News Is Better
than We Thought William V. Fabricius Department of Psychology Arizona State University First draft of a paper to be presented at Senator Anne C. Cools Roundtable on Family Dynamics Senate of Canada May 6 — 8, 2011
There's ample research that
divorce isn't the
worst thing parents can do to kids: Fighting terribly and subjecting them to your vitriolic hatred toward each other is the
worst; staying married in such a state is actually
worse for kids
than if you actually got
divorced.
Gwyneth was the one who eventually filed for
divorce and Chris seemed to cope with the breakup a little
worse than she did.
But nothing is
worse than being
divorced and unattached on Valentine's Day.
One of my friends said that
divorce is
worse than that person passing away cause you still have to see the person.
As a result, we may think of
divorce as more closely tied to psychological problems than it actually is [see «Is Divorce Bad for Children?
divorce as more closely tied to psychological problems
than it actually is [see «Is
Divorce Bad for Children?
Divorce Bad for Children?»
I'm tall dark and well two out three ain't
bad a laugh a day and tendernesand whatever turns you on I'm not a member yet so don't get mad if I don't answer I love to please I've always lived by lady's 1 st in everything I be been
divorced over 40 years I traveled a lot so I loved where I could my ex was 2 years older
than me most women I dated were older till now I'm old
If she does not forgive Oblonsky, then there will surely be a
divorce, scandal, the loss of position, and what could truly be
worse than that?
It is
worse in some places
than in others (or better, I suppose, if you are a
divorce lawyer).
Bettelheim — and others such as E. M. Hetherington — argue that most adult children from
divorced parents «are no
worse off
than their peers whose parents remained married.»
One might assume, for example, that unhappy spouses who
divorce and those who stay married are fundamentally two different groups; i.e., that the marriages that ended in
divorce were much
worse than those that survived.
It is so
bad, that a recent study analyzing children of
divorce over a 50 year period by Stanford University demonstrates that children of
divorce actually live five years shorter lives
than children raised in intact two - parent married families.
One might assume, for example, that unhappy spouses who
divorce and those who stay married are fundamentally two different groups; i.e., marriages that ended in
divorce were much
worse than those who stayed married.
Even after controlling for the selection of different types of individuals into different types of family structure, the authors concluded that children who spent time in
divorced - or unwed - mother households fared considerably
worse than those remaining in intact two - parent families throughout their childhood and adolescence.
This process is vastly less expensive
than an in - court
divorce, takes less time, and usually does not stir up as much
bad blood between the parties.
People going through a
divorce are at their
worst, not because they are
bad people, but because it's such a difficult process,» said Berkovitz, adding that
divorce can be more complicated
than losing a spouse through death.
Therapy is confidential and a whole lot cheaper
than divorce, poor health, unemployment, DUIs, or
worse yet, jail.
It's way better to get the knowledge and
divorce advice you need from the start,
than it is to try to re-negotiate a
bad deal later.
We feel strongly that there is probably more
bad advice about
divorce than any other serious decision in life.
It took Gottman sixteen years of intensely studying happy marriages rather
than analyzing
bad ones to figure out how to revive or
divorce - proof a relationship.
Choosing a process which is a
bad fit can result in failed negotiations, anger, and a more adversarial
divorce than might have been necessary.
Premarital counseling, marriage counseling, and
divorce prevention counseling can help you avoid being on the
bad end of the numbers, but some couples are naturally at a higher risk for
divorce than others.
Finally, celebrity
divorces have shown us that — despite their less
than stellar reputation — many lawyers are not as
bad as they are depicted.
Don't sign an agreement you don't intend to follow just so you can get your
divorce over with; doing that is
worse than not reaching an agreement at all.
While marital discord in the family does have negative effects on children, the effects of
divorce have shown to be
worse than if the parents had remained together and attempted to work out their problems.
Over my more
than a quarter - century of family law practice, I have witnessed people in the traditional court - based
divorce process make some very
bad decisions which affected their future and their childrens» future.
More often
than not, the attorney is going to meet you when you are at your
worst, especially in a new
divorce consultation.
The pain of
divorce is
worse than almost any other pain on the planet.
While you may think that expecting the best is better
than expecting the
worst (or vice versa) the truth is that neither of those kinds of expectations will serve you well in your
divorce.
More importantly, single mothers who marry and later
divorce are
worse off economically
than single mothers who never marry.
The study found that marriages with significant conflict were
worse for happiness and health
than divorce.
The implication is that staying with a cheater, as Hillary has, is
worse than if she
divorced him — even though many of us are still conflicted about
divorce.
There is nothing
worse than finding out months (or years) after your
divorce is over that you have a credit card bill in your name that was never dealt with in your
divorce.
Results Probands had significantly
worse educational, occupational, economic, and social outcomes; more
divorces; and higher rates of ongoing ADHD (22.2 % vs 5.1 %, P <.001), ASPD (16.3 % vs 0 %, P <.001), and SUDs (14.1 % vs 5.1 %, P =.01) but not more mood or anxiety disorders (P =.36 and.33)
than did comparison participants.
Children in high - conflict families, whether intact or
divorced, tend to fare
worse than children of parents that get along, according to a University of Illinois study review.
Having to Be Responsible for Debts You Forgot About (or Didn't Know Existed)-- There is nothing
worse than finding out months (or years) after your
divorce is over that you have a credit card bill in your name that was never dealt with in your
divorce.
You've likely heard more
bad divorce stories
than you have good
divorce stories.
Divorce doesn't have to leave your family life in tatters and you in a
worse place
than before you were married.
Stress factors that are more likely to be present and to affect single mothers
than happily married mothers include: financial problems, living in a
bad neighborhood, juggling increased outside employment and childcare demands, post-break-up domestic violence and harassment,
divorce and custody litigation, and interference with family and household routines by nonresident parents and other third parties (i.e. responsibility without decision - making authority).
Ever since Gwyneth Paltrow described her split from musician husband Chris Martin as a «conscious uncoupling» rather
than a «
divorce» experts have been falling all over themselves to talk about conscious uncoupling, and weigh in about whether it's a good or
bad thing.
The only thing
worse than a
bad marriage is a
bad divorce.
In many circumstances, the adversarial nature of traditional
divorce lawsuits can make the situation even
worse as parents are encouraged to make negative statements about one another, rather
than concentrate on making a plan that best suits the children as well as the parents.