However, many grandparents believe that waiting for a child to decide that he's ready or interested doesn't provide enough structure. (babycenter.com)
We provide just enough structure to keep you active and just enough flexibility to allow personal growth, friendship - building, and some much needed R - and - R! (bodhisurfyoga.com)
Whether there has been too much pressure or not enough structure - a «window of readiness» seems to have passed. (sohoparenting.com)