"Askin" is a colloquial or informal version of the word "asking." It is used to describe the act of requesting or inquiring about something from someone. Full definition
Sure ain't askin for sympathy or trying to make out like poor me. (redeeminggod.com)
Lord Jesus he likes a blue Ford but a white top is OK too... and an AM / FM radio iin if it ain't askin too much Lord, he'd lookin to make $ 50,000 or so cuz he's got three kids n his mom loves with him too... and his dogs.. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)
Not really sure what else to say, as I am new to online dating, and truth be told, am somewhat wary of askin... (atheistpassions.com)