The second biggest reason why people get discouraged when it comes to dating after 40 is the baggage problem. (over40datingsites.com)
That kind of choice increases exponentially your potential for finding the right match and that may be the single biggest reason for joining the site. (asiandatesites.com)
The reason those against it are a minority - at least one of big reasons - is the information control. (politics.stackexchange.com)