In a schematic fashion, I think we can take the following from these stories as cardinal principles of evangelizing: (religion-online.org)
In an article, we find eleven cardinal principles for the young lad looking for employment. (resumehacking.com)
I was surprised by you noting that the old cardinal principle you learned in couples therapy «Thou shalt not takes sides» (I know that principle), but then you add; «especially the woman's side against the man.» (psychotherapynetworker.org)