The expenses would need to qualify as deductible medical expenses that are reduced by 10 % of your adjusted gross income. (turbotax.intuit.com)
Your former spouse must report them as alimony received and can include them in figuring deductible medical expenses. (irs.gov)
If they have $ 10,000 of charitable contributions and $ 8,000 of deductible medical expenses for a total of $ 18,000 in deductions, that's not worth itemizing, as it's less than the standard deduction. (fool.com)