Men like doing things, especially in the field of external action. (faith.org.uk)
This process of taking better care of myself from my most inner emotions all the way out to my most external actions towards others was my entry into wellness. (mindbodygreen.com)
Basically, lock yourself into whatever positive external actions you can, to start giving her a more equitable place on your team while you work on this internally. (careerdigital.com)