Now it is hard to get discharge for a student loan except in extreme circumstances where the debt was forcing «undue hardship» on the borrower. (studentloans.net)
A court may order supervised visitation or no visitation under extreme circumstances of abuse or abandonment. (info.legalzoom.com)
However, my experience of the approach by employers in the most extreme circumstances such as these already tends towards generosity and understanding. (lawyer-monthly.com)