So hop down off of your high horse and instead of bringing people down to make yourself feel like a better person try being supportive of fellow mothers for a change. (babycenter.com)
You may be surprised at how many fellow mothers actually take part! (abckidsinc.com)
Also building a supportive community around you can be virtual, surrounding yourself with fellow mothers going through the same thing can be really helpful. (psychologytoday.com)