The phrase "first refuge" means the very first safe place or person that someone goes to seek protection or comfort in times of trouble or danger. Full definition
As a result, Rhode Island became first their refuge and then their stronghold. (religion-online.org)
Maybe i will use use your previous statement given you made no argument only an accusation... perhaps» «The first refuge of the cornered fool.» (religion.blogs.cnn.com)
A retreat to «you just don't understand» is the first refuge of the arrogant. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)