Take a long hard look in your mirrors, take a reality check, and stop putting your own negative perspectives on every one else as the «normal / appropriate» behavior. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)
Taking a good hard look in the mirror and facing what you see is hard. (entrepreneur.com)
Rather than seeing our partner's flaws as something we must correct, we need to take a good, hard look in the mirror first. (theeverygirl.com)