The phrase "hopeless man" refers to someone who lacks optimism and does not believe there is any possibility of a positive outcome or improvement in their life. Full definition
Ladies, can you please try to give a glimpse for hopeless men everywhere? (webdate.com)
In a world turned upside down, where the past and the future, the nature of truth itself, all take shape according to a corrupt government's whims, one man — one spectacularly hopeless man — fights to overcome his history and his name, and, if for only once in his life, to put things right. (bookbrowse.com)
but I do remember reading about the only one successful RSVP date and thinking «bugger, I was looking forward to lots of very funny, interesting date stories of tragic hopeless men Alana meets». (housegoeshome.com)