The wealthy men in question are mature individuals and as we know that girls mature faster than boys, so women feel at times that they have better intellectual connections with older men. (olderwomenlookingforyoungermen.club)
A woman may need to make an emotional or intellectual connection before her body responds. (health.com)
If you can't find a point of intellectual connection, it may be a sign that you weren't that compatible to begin with. (verilymag.com)