The word "judgy" means being quick to make judgments or forming opinions about someone or something, often in a negative or critical way. Full definition
Your post made me realize that these people need me to be encouraging, not judgy. (thebadassbreastfeeder.com)
Or I see someone who's not practicing attachment parenting and start getting judgy — not the person I want to be. (thehappiesthome.com)
There seems to be a lot of judgment, on behalf of judgy parents and police / child protective services, of children who are doing things independently of a supervising adult. (rookiemoms.com)