Each of the scenarios I painted for you describe a situation where your expectations do not match the actions of another person. (rainmakerlawyer.com)
Still everything sounds as it should and matches the action perfectly, so asking for more than that is just me whining. (thevrgrid.com)
An obvious area in which the talk might not match the action is when simple, straightforward honesty ought to be really important but may be in short supply. (slaw.ca)