This soldier could have used the time for reflection or opted out of the ceremony as military regulations allowed. (religion.blogs.cnn.com)
However, based on your location, there are particular military regulations and federal statutes that might apply to your divorce. (torontodivorcelaw.com)
«A First Amendment Analysis of Military Regulations Restricting the Wearing of Military Uniforms by Members of the Individual Ready Reserve Who Participate in Politically Themed Theatrical Productions,» 49 B.C. L. Rev. 1131, 2008 (foleyhoag.com)