For domestic adoption agencies, they provide pre and post adoption counseling for first mothers, and support her decision either way. (creatingafamily.org)
Best gift: I let my husband know that my very first Mother's Day as a mom was really special and very strongly hinted that he might buy me something special. (care.com)
One of the best ways to «get to know» each other is to start reading blogs written by first mothers (and fathers), adopted people, and adoptive parents. (creatingafamily.org)