Goals can be flexible but should always aim to drive the job seeker to exceed their own perceived limits. (blog.gojobhero.com)
Since many daughters perceive limited contact with their fathers as a personal rejection, this can lead to lowered self - esteem and trouble trusting romantic partners during adolescence and adulthood. (divorcemag.com)
For the record, I don't perceive limit testing as a negative character flaw. (attachmentparenting.org)