I live in a district with plenty of parents who, like you, pack and advocate simultaneously and the district has not been receptive to change. (thelunchtray.com)
Granted, child development is my career, but I speak with plenty of parents in my practice who find themselves in similar circumstances. (pearltrees.com)
I know plenty of parenting partners (regardless of gender) that do the following weird things to get them through a few laundry loads, too. (romper.com)