Mediation is an informal, private process in which an impartial person facilitates communication between two parties in a conflict and strives to promote reconciliation, settlement, or understanding. (mckinneyfamilycounseling.com)
In most locations, you can serve your spouse by private process server or law enforcement officer. (info.legalzoom.com)
Collaborative Divorce offers a safe, respectful, and private process for shared decision - making by divorcing couples. (collaborateny.com)