The phrase "the reality of the situation" refers to the actual or true state of affairs, as opposed to any illusions, misunderstandings or misconceptions that may exist. Full definition
I think this is a blatant form of denial, an escape from the harsh realities of their situation. (nakedpastor.com)
Don't overlook the value of leading the client through the process and providing them with the tools and information to understand that process in addition to discussing the legal realities of their situation. (lawyerist.com)
Only for injuries, poor production, or the like to show the depressing reality of the situation. (slickstermagazine.com)