Our tendencies to collaborate rather than compete, listen more than talk, and use relationships rather than muscle to influence are the very same behaviours I coach men to acquire. (slaw.ca)
I too hold NBD and have seen the exact same behaviour as yourself. (triageinvestingblog.com)
Some even reported that employers who had sanctioned them for expressing knowledge as women rewarded the same behaviour when they were men. (canadianbusiness.com)